Adviceeee!! Why would a guy be with a controlling girlfriend and sacrifice the girl he actually falling or fallen for?

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Like he been with S/o for 4 years now but too many arguments lies she deleted his snapchat has all his passwords he doesn't like it nor in love with her. with her he looks stressed tensed doesn't like talking about her and the relationship he said the sex is dead.

So ofc you will love spmeone else that is similar to you, get along, full of affection from his part back hugs and picked me up😂😂spent a lot of time with me. He said “ i really like you” full of smiles

So why would he choose her still do you think he still misses me is he fallen for me🤷🏼‍♀️😏Like he did say he spent a lot of money like gifts maybe that reason and the family knows about her to

Answer 1

taterbot6

Xper 4

4 years is a long time and most likely doesn't wanna just throw that time away. He probably wants to male it work for the history they have and he may really like you but is unsure if the jump is worth it.

Asker

1 mo
i think so ik he really likes me but yeah i think cuz of the time but would you be with a guy that controls you and your social media deleted ur snap and argues with ur friends I don't know maybe if we spent more time together lol
taterbot6

1 mo
As much as we all would like to say no we wouldn't, thats not the case. Plenty of people stay in relationships they dont wanna be in for one reason or another. Its unfortunately pretty common.
Asker

29 d
oh i undeestand my friend is also the same you think the way he likes me u think he would miss me though? but I don't know if he would contact again
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taterbot6

29 d
He may like and miss you but it probably isn't stronger than his desire to be with his girlfriend.
Asker

29 d
Yes but u can't u he loves her if he likes me and he doesbt like her controlling his life. Confusing Maybe he cares or scared to break it to her

Answer 2

Asker

i think so ik he really likes me but yeah i think cuz of the time but would you be with a guy that controls you and your social media deleted ur snap and argues with ur friends I don't know maybe if we spent more time together lol

Answer 3

taterbot6

As much as we all would like to say no we wouldn't, thats not the case. Plenty of people stay in relationships they dont wanna be in for one reason or another. Its unfortunately pretty common.

Answer 4

Asker

oh i undeestand my friend is also the same you think the way he likes me u think he would miss me though? but I don't know if he would contact again

Answer 5

taterbot6

He may like and miss you but it probably isn't stronger than his desire to be with his girlfriend.

Answer 6

Asker

Yes but u can't u he loves her if he likes me and he doesbt like her controlling his life. Confusing Maybe he cares or scared to break it to her

Answer 7

Anonymous

To be honest with you do you think he could be making all this up? If the family knows about her and he’s buying gifts.. he have control over all of this. Don’t be surprised if he uses this to push you away. he’s been with her for 4 years. Anything else been happening? Guys tend to make the other girl look bad for whatever reason

Asker

1 mo
No ik its true he wouldn't lie about gifts he told me about his past etc been vulnerable with me. everything but i think cuz of the time and money he spent probs doesn't want to throw it away and he never made me look or feel bad he just doesn't know what to do.. but he should know whats worth his time lol
Opinion Owner

1 mo
I wasn’t talking about you I was talking about the other girl that you were referring to

Answer 8

Asker

No ik its true he wouldn't lie about gifts he told me about his past etc been vulnerable with me. everything but i think cuz of the time and money he spent probs doesn't want to throw it away and he never made me look or feel bad he just doesn't know what to do.. but he should know whats worth his time lol

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

I wasn’t talking about you I was talking about the other girl that you were referring to

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