Asking him out to a drink?

Question

If a girl you were in a relationship with 4 years breaks up with you and then 4 years after the breakup you’re both still single and she asks you out for a drink what would you think or say? Would you go?

Answer 1

Reaperbot666

Guru

depends how and why the relationship ended in the first place. also if I still had feelings for her or not.

Answer 2

Anonymous

I'd consider it. But depends on a lot. How the relationship was, how it ended, etc. I'd question the intention as well, so make that clear. Basically think of it in the reverse, what would go through your mind? That's what's going through his probably also.

Answer 3

mrgspoter | 265 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Yea but I might not be the same or as she remembers lol

Answer 4

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Depends why and how we broke up

jessicarose98

28 d
Bad breakup on both ends and to just catch up
In_Trance

28 d
That doesn't explain why it happened
jessicarose98

28 d
Too young he wanted to marry me i was 18 barely graduating highschool had no future plans, he was very possessive and controlling also didn’t know what he was doing in life
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In_Trance

28 d
Why would you want to connect with someone like this? Your intentions would be taken out of context... or would they? What's; your endgame? If it's to satisfy your curiosity, don't waste your time
jessicarose98

28 d
I don’t know how he is now, I love/d him but we both were children at the time not ready for anything like marriage or kids like he wanted. My end game would be to see if there’s still feelings or not and if there is to figure how we want to proceed
In_Trance

28 d
Well, good luck

Answer 5

jessicarose98

Bad breakup on both ends and to just catch up

Answer 6

In_Trance

That doesn't explain why it happened

Answer 7

jessicarose98

Too young he wanted to marry me i was 18 barely graduating highschool had no future plans, he was very possessive and controlling also didn’t know what he was doing in life

Answer 8

In_Trance

Why would you want to connect with someone like this? Your intentions would be taken out of context... or would they? What's; your endgame? If it's to satisfy your curiosity, don't waste your time

Answer 9

jessicarose98

I don’t know how he is now, I love/d him but we both were children at the time not ready for anything like marriage or kids like he wanted. My end game would be to see if there’s still feelings or not and if there is to figure how we want to proceed

Answer 10

In_Trance

Well, good luck

Answer 11

DavidFox | 244 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Sure

DavidFox

28 d
If you dated that long and meet him, there will be feelings. Don’t drink any alcohol
jessicarose98

28 d
Well where should i ask to go then? Or go to the bar and have him drink and i dont 🤣🤣
DavidFox

28 d
Ask to meet for lunch or to meet at a park or the beach. All you want is to talk and catch up.
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DavidFox

28 d
by the way I wouldn’t meet an ex at night because that could lead to a sexual outcome

Answer 12

DavidFox

If you dated that long and meet him, there will be feelings. Don’t drink any alcohol

Answer 13

jessicarose98

Well where should i ask to go then? Or go to the bar and have him drink and i dont 🤣🤣

Answer 14

DavidFox

Ask to meet for lunch or to meet at a park or the beach. All you want is to talk and catch up.

Answer 15

DavidFox

by the way I wouldn’t meet an ex at night because that could lead to a sexual outcome

Answer 16

gandolph3 | 318 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Sure would love to

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