Do I have mug written on my forehead? so I’ve been chatting to this guy for 2 months now we have met up twice. We are not official or even discussed that far properly. After the second met up he had some stress at work with the possibility of redundancy so he has been stressed but I've hardly heard from him ! He will message like once a day if that and sometimes can take up to 3 days to reply. He keeps saying he’s sorry he’s being a ghost but he’s very stressed and busy. I did say look what are we and r u looking for something serious and he did say we definitely get along and he wanted to see how things progress like me but he said he has been shut off coz he didn’t know how I felt and he didn’t want to say coz he didn’t want to sound too keen ! I don’t know he’s confusing me ! If he doesn’t like me why is he still messaging I would rather he just stop all together ! Like he messages after 3 days saying sorry I’ve been so busy call me tonight !