True or not: shy guy would contact a girl who he likes first especially if she’s initiated contact already even if he’s not sure about her feelings?

Question

What do u think?
if shy guy was interested in a girl he would keep contacting her especially when she’s texted him first few times already?

Answer 1

magiusX26 | 603 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

yes but its not always that simple either. many things can leave him to not text much too. work, family, life, and other things.

Asker

19 d
I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact? Maybe he needs clear hint that I’m interested in him?
magiusX26

19 d
try stop worrying about liking stories etc, maybe even invite him to a more text based platform such as email, Skype, kik, textnow, etc.
Asker

19 d
I’m afraid that he’s just not interested...

Answer 2

Asker

I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact? Maybe he needs clear hint that I’m interested in him?

Answer 3

magiusX26

try stop worrying about liking stories etc, maybe even invite him to a more text based platform such as email, Skype, kik, textnow, etc.

Answer 4

Asker

I’m afraid that he’s just not interested...

Answer 5

Anonymous

Not really no.

Specially if the girls is way out of guy's league. And/or if she is close with people around him.

Being shy, also makes guys paranoid. They might overthink things and try to analyze worst case scenarios, where you got offended soo much by something they said that you informed his colleagues etc and he got embarrassed.

Call it a defense mechanism or paranoia, whatever, but shy guys most likely would not freely contact a girl until they are sure she won't get offended. Which takes a while.

Asker

15 d
by the way he’s more info:

I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact? Maybe he needs clear hint that I’m interested in him?
Opinion Owner

15 d
Well, regarding Instagram comments: same rule applies. He is shy there as well. Because comments are visible to everyone. And he does not wanna make fool of himself in public (worst case scenario).

Regarding text: it could be that his past experience has made him cautious about texting/disturbing girls first. Otherwise, it depends on how long you have known him.
Asker

15 d
We’ve exchanged direct messaged so other people can’t see them except for us. by the way we barely know each other, we’re not friends.
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Opinion Owner

15 d
It is getting hard to keep track of complete story. Is it possible to text me directly?
Asker

15 d
How, ur anonymous? I can’t follow u/message u.
Opinion Owner

15 d
My id is Mega_illuminati. You can text if you want.

Answer 6

Asker

by the way he’s more info:

I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact? Maybe he needs clear hint that I’m interested in him?

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

Well, regarding Instagram comments: same rule applies. He is shy there as well. Because comments are visible to everyone. And he does not wanna make fool of himself in public (worst case scenario).

Regarding text: it could be that his past experience has made him cautious about texting/disturbing girls first. Otherwise, it depends on how long you have known him.

Answer 8

Asker

We’ve exchanged direct messaged so other people can’t see them except for us. by the way we barely know each other, we’re not friends.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

It is getting hard to keep track of complete story. Is it possible to text me directly?

Answer 10

Asker

How, ur anonymous? I can’t follow u/message u.

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

My id is Mega_illuminati. You can text if you want.

Answer 12

Adogdog | 50 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

If I was interested then yes.

Asker

19 d
I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact? Maybe he needs clear hint that I’m interested in him?
Adogdog

19 d
I would give a clear hint.
Asker

19 d
So he could be interested?

Answer 13

Asker

I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact? Maybe he needs clear hint that I’m interested in him?

Answer 14

Adogdog

I would give a clear hint.

Answer 15

Asker

So he could be interested?

True or not: shy guy would contact a girl who he likes first especially if she’s initiated contact already even if he’s not sure about her feelings?

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