Men, would you marry your ex who moved in with you after 2 weeks, who has eventually become your lifelong "f*** buddy" and is for open relationships?

Question

Would you marry the ex that lives abroad, and comes and goes over to your country- has become your lifelong "f***" buddy, who smokes weed with you, watches football with you etc... The chick who moved in with you after 2 weeks of meeting you. Would you settle with her?
She's down for an open relationship even through long distance etc?

Answer 1

magiusX26 | 606 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

this is an oxymoron question. i would not let any ex move in. if somehow that happened, she would noy be a "lifelong fuck buddy" because she us an ex, not current. then there is the marriage part, if you marry tyen she stops being an ex and becomes a current.

Answer 2

Liam_Hayden | 1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

1. would you marry your ex? Absolutely not
2. who moved in with you after 2 weeks? I would not allow that
3. who has eventually become your lifelong "f*** buddy? I don't do casual
4. and is for open relationships? Not my thing

Answer 3

iseekpinetrees | 90 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

God no. I'd marry someone I can build a life with not something based off sex. Sex gets boring fast. There's more to life than just fucking like bunnies.

Answer 4

ArtesaniDiTuro

Xper 2

Marriage became a it legally much more difficult. I could live like you said but is giving the woman so much power than I could ever have in the relationship

Answer 5

jasco | 387 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I would marry a few of the ex's i had, but i can't say all of them were marriage material tho

Answer 6

Pete671 | 142 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Definitely not!, she would imho, be a free spirit and not cut out for marriage,,,

Answer 7

hellionthesagereborn | 653 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

No, that sounds like a fucking train wreck.

carolstagag

20 d
What does that mean?
hellionthesagereborn

20 d
Well one, moving in within two weeks of knowing you seems like a really terrible idea, its a good way of having your life get fucked (it shows impulsiveness and a lack of forethought (do you know this person? No, but here they are living with you now). I also think that an open relationship is idiotically stupid, thats not a relationship that is having a fuck buddy that also fucks a lot of other people who are not you and thus increases your risk of disease and/or drama PLUS you have the added problem of if its a "open relationship" you (the guy) are still having to act like this is an exclusive relationship which means your basically paying her by providing and what not jus so she can go off and fuck some one else. Thats a pretty stupid system (men don't put so much effort and resources into a relationship to fuck a girl (he can get a prostitute for that) he does it to ensure exclusivity).

Then you have the unreliability factor of her coming and going which makes it really difficult to maintain any kind of relationship beyond purely sexual and the fact that they are fucking other people and thus creating emotional bonds with multiple people who are not you (which comes with a host of other problems beyond being incappable of pair bonding with the primary relationship (if you can even call it that at that point).

On top of all of that, the act of getting into a legally binding contract that wiaves pretty much all of my rights to my things, my resources, and my possible future children for some one who is not bound to me in anyway, is not investing anything into me (investing vagina doesn't really count) or the relationship and thus ahs no reason not to just fuck my life if she feels like it (and with all these other factors she likely will) seems like a terrible decision on my part.

Thats kind of like swinging an ax at a rope. . . that is keeping you from plunging to your death, sure it may not get severed, but its a moronically stupid chance to take.
carolstagag

19 d
well you couldn't have summarized it any bettter. thank you <3
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hellionthesagereborn

19 d
Your welcome.

Answer 8

carolstagag

What does that mean?

Answer 9

hellionthesagereborn

Well one, moving in within two weeks of knowing you seems like a really terrible idea, its a good way of having your life get fucked (it shows impulsiveness and a lack of forethought (do you know this person? No, but here they are living with you now). I also think that an open relationship is idiotically stupid, thats not a relationship that is having a fuck buddy that also fucks a lot of other people who are not you and thus increases your risk of disease and/or drama PLUS you have the added problem of if its a "open relationship" you (the guy) are still having to act like this is an exclusive relationship which means your basically paying her by providing and what not jus so she can go off and fuck some one else. Thats a pretty stupid system (men don't put so much effort and resources into a relationship to fuck a girl (he can get a prostitute for that) he does it to ensure exclusivity).

Then you have the unreliability factor of her coming and going which makes it really difficult to maintain any kind of relationship beyond purely sexual and the fact that they are fucking other people and thus creating emotional bonds with multiple people who are not you (which comes with a host of other problems beyond being incappable of pair bonding with the primary relationship (if you can even call it that at that point).

On top of all of that, the act of getting into a legally binding contract that wiaves pretty much all of my rights to my things, my resources, and my possible future children for some one who is not bound to me in anyway, is not investing anything into me (investing vagina doesn't really count) or the relationship and thus ahs no reason not to just fuck my life if she feels like it (and with all these other factors she likely will) seems like a terrible decision on my part.

Thats kind of like swinging an ax at a rope. . . that is keeping you from plunging to your death, sure it may not get severed, but its a moronically stupid chance to take.

Answer 10

carolstagag

well you couldn't have summarized it any bettter. thank you <3

Answer 11

hellionthesagereborn

Your welcome.

Answer 12

Natehunter199

Xper 5

Nope, there is a reason she is labeled the ex

Answer 13

REDHOTLINE | 139 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

May be its depends in her personalty.

Answer 14

msc545 | 362 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

No. If you want trouble there she is.

Answer 15

ThisDudeHere | 1.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No thank you.

Answer 16

Bandit74 | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

I don't think so.

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