Why does every guy I’ve talked to always end up blocking me? Am I really that unattractive! Like I try to be nice to them and we talk for a while and I even respect their privacy if they don’t respond I don’t message them! So please tell me why every guy just blocks me? Here’s a picture of me by the way!
Citizenkirk | 230 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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If every guy is responding the same way to your correspondence, you might consider taking an objective look at the type of people they are, and explore other personality types too take up a conversation with. Be yourself, and talk to them the way you would talk to someone that you are familiar with so that you don't appear to be too nervous or act differently than you would be acting if you were talking to a common acquaintance. If your nervous or appear apprehensive or concerned about giving the right impression the first time you meet, perhaps you try too hard, and some types of people might misinterpret that as you being evasive or think that you're trying to hide or manipulate something. Some people have a tendency to assume the worst in a situation and imagine things that aren't really there, so just being comfortable with the situation and being at ease with how you talk, and appearing relaxed, will let them see you for the way you really are, and that will help you to weed out the types of people that you don't want to continue corresponding with, and the ones that block you or don't return any of your messages aren't really worth your time anyway. Those likely to be a good fit for you socially, and romantically, if you choose to go that route, may be found by diversifying the types of people you interact with, which is a good place to start looking at who you want to be with and the type person you want to be yourself, in relation to those people. Whatever you do, don't assume the worst about yourself, because that's not realistic or fair to you, and from the looks of your picture, you look just fine. I see no reason why anyone should be disappointed or displeased with your appearance. You appear to me, too be very approachable. So if your attitude and your behavior is equally approachable, then I think just talking to different types of people might give you better results.
It's really sad how "blocking" has not only become common, but "normal" and accepted. But it's THEM not YOU. You have to not take it personally. I know how hard that is, but it's true. You are just talking to the wrong guys. I also think it has a lot to do with guys your age (immature and not looking for anything serious). But it won't be you as a person. I can't say why as it could very depending on the guy (and don't know what he's thinking or intentions) but most common reasons, he's only looking for sex and knows it's not going to come from you. Or, maybe because you don't message them, they think you aren't interested anymore and move on? Women have this fear of "looking desperate", to the point they won't EVER make the first move, and you HAVE TO sometimes! It shows interest. Think of it in the reverse and what you would think if you were him.
Hawner | 81 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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You don't look ugly to me (and that would not be a reason to block you anyway) and you say you have been nice and respectful. Maybe is not you the problem, but the guys who are idiots. Don't worry, you will find a nice guy eventually. ;)
That headgear is a bit off putting but otherwise there's nothing wrong with you, neither from your description of conversation. You might just have had some bad luck with the guys you talk with.
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Ummm Disney is the best 😂
Slim57 | 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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I don't know girls do that to me too, and I never say weird things, it's probably cause they think we're too boring because we're "good" I don't know you but are you a good type of girl compared to the bad ones?
That's probably why then im not like most guys my age either
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Probably!
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I don't know, you're pretty cute. Do you freak them out by saying weird things or putting pressure on them?
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No I don’t! If they don’t message me back I just let them be until they do cuz I’m not some over obsessive girl who excepts someone to message me right away and if they say they’re upset and don’t wanna talk atm I say ok that’s fine so I just don’t get it!
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Are you chasing after men that are out of your league? I mean, I would say that you're above average looking and surely you could get a boyfriend that would be blowing up your phone and missing you all the time. When I chase after women that are like a 9/10 they act distant and I'm always confused like you.
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No I’m not so I’m confused on why they block me
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I'm stumped too. Nobody would know without meeting you or asking your boyfriends.
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Yea it’s weird (I’ve never been in a relationship)
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Well, you're still young. Just keep trying to meet someone who shows you the same attention and enthusiasm that you give. I started my first long term relationship around your age. I hope you find a good guy who treats you well. Good luck.
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Thank you
ColHathi | 328 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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I can't imagine it's your appearance 🤔 You look great to me.
Those guys you meet on the fly tho might thought that way tho. Now for the guy friend you knew for awhile, only thing I can think of is if he got in. Relationship and his girlfriend didn't want him talking to any other girl regardless.
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He’s has a girlfriend but he told me he wasn’t happy in the relationship anymore
You are pretty, I wouldn’t take it to heart guys blocking you. A lot of the guys here are probably just looking to sext and swap pics, if they don’t get that they will block you and move on
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