What do I do about a jealous husband?

[Anonymous]

Me and husband don’t text the opposite sex unless it’s necessary. And that’s just because I don’t feel like men and women that are friends need to text. Which is fine because he feels the same. But a I had to text a man from work to cover a shift (I don’t know him got contact from a friend). I thought I told my husband but apparently didn’t and he was very upset when he found out. He said “I didn’t think you would go that far and text a man.” As if I cheated? When it was nothing but professional text messages asking to cover certain days at work. And now he’s very angry with me anytime I try and talk to me he asks me to get away. What do I do? I don’t feel like I did anything wrong but he’s still making me feel guilty.

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[hahahmm]

The only times I've known people to have such an extreme reaction is when they themselves have a history of cheating, if not cheating right now. They see something that reminds them of what they've done and they flip out.

So this is a big red flag. You may want to investigate what he's up to.

As far as him trying to guilt you: just have an attitude of not giving a F. He'll stop when he realize it doesn't bother you.

[Wise4myage]

Your husband is very insecure and immature too. Did you show him the texts? You didn't do anything wrong.

[stickit]

sounds like he has a big trust issue i wish my wife would get more jealous honestly