I’m Confused!! Why would he watch ALL of my instagram story updates?

Question

Why would he watch ALL of my instagram story updates BUT not comment on them or interact with them. He’s watched ALL of my stuff for a year now!

Also he always texts me back if I initiate contact and seems to like talking to me BUT won’t text me first.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Possibly doesn't wanna seem like he's constantly bothering you. I know I often hesitate when viewing stories and messaging the girl cause I dont want her to think I'm annoying or a nuisance... I have also had a girl message me telling me to stop messaging/reacting to her posts so much.. so that's a factor possibly.

Asker

19 d
Hmm but we haven’t talked for over a month ( okay he doesn’t know that I like him and we don’t know each other).

Answer 2

Asker

Hmm but we haven’t talked for over a month ( okay he doesn’t know that I like him and we don’t know each other).

Answer 3

berserk945 | 109 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

He likes you and is just nervous about committing or initiate conversation in fear that he might scare you off.

Asker

18 d
Why would he be if I’ve commented on his stuff few times already?
berserk945

18 d
Because it all that matters is he doesn't want to say something wrong.

Just talk to him about it!
Asker

18 d
by the way here’s more info:

I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact?
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berserk945

18 d
Yes he is to shy to contact you. You my have to initiate and tell him how you feel.
Asker

18 d
Why are u sure that he’s shy and not just uninterested?
berserk945

18 d
He replies quickly which means he is always checking for your messages, he watches everything of yours.

Thats the same as I do when I like a girl.
Asker

18 d
Wouldn’t u have the courage to contact the girl u like or even participate in her polls that she puts in her stories lol?
berserk945

18 d
I participate in the polls but i don't have the courage to contact her, it takes me a very long time to find the right time with the right nerve.
Asker

18 d
I put a a emoji slider in my story (Heart eye emoji) and he didn’t even respond to it.
berserk945

18 d
Does he know it slides? I didn't know it slides for a long time
Asker

18 d
Yes he does know lol. He puts them in his stories too
berserk945

18 d
Okay, im not sure why then
Asker

18 d
But all in all u think he’s probably interested but shy?
berserk945

18 d
Yes!
Asker

18 d
If I start to ignore his stuff (story updates) is it going to make him more active lol?
berserk945

18 d
I don't know

Answer 4

Asker

Why would he be if I’ve commented on his stuff few times already?

Answer 5

berserk945

Because it all that matters is he doesn't want to say something wrong.

Just talk to him about it!

Answer 6

Asker

by the way here’s more info:

I’ve replied few times to my crush instagram stories but he hasn’t done the same back to me altough he watches eagerly my stories. Our conversations have been very friendly and he has replied back to me promptly ( he’s replies are decent, he used a lot emojis and he likes/ heart reacts my texts). One time he even wrote me long paragraphs and also he one time sent me a short disappearing video. He’s responsive ehen I contact him but he doesn’t contact me first.
I don't know what to do. Should I just give up on him? Is it possible that he’s too shy to contact?

Answer 7

berserk945

Yes he is to shy to contact you. You my have to initiate and tell him how you feel.

Answer 8

Asker

Why are u sure that he’s shy and not just uninterested?

Answer 9

berserk945

He replies quickly which means he is always checking for your messages, he watches everything of yours.

Thats the same as I do when I like a girl.

Answer 10

Asker

Wouldn’t u have the courage to contact the girl u like or even participate in her polls that she puts in her stories lol?

Answer 11

berserk945

I participate in the polls but i don't have the courage to contact her, it takes me a very long time to find the right time with the right nerve.

Answer 12

Asker

I put a a emoji slider in my story (Heart eye emoji) and he didn’t even respond to it.

Answer 13

berserk945

Does he know it slides? I didn't know it slides for a long time

Answer 14

Asker

Yes he does know lol. He puts them in his stories too

Answer 15

berserk945

Okay, im not sure why then

Answer 16

Asker

But all in all u think he’s probably interested but shy?

Answer 17

berserk945

Yes!

Answer 18

Asker

If I start to ignore his stuff (story updates) is it going to make him more active lol?

Answer 19

berserk945

I don't know

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