Does he still have feelings for me?

Question

I met this man a few months ago online and we fell into things pretty quickly. It was so sexy, so hot... but he told me that he wasn’t where I was emotions wise. We decided to “just be homies”, just good friends... but every single day since we decided that, he has been constantly texting/calling, sending sweet messages, sending funny memes and things that he says reminds him of “us”. Like this has been every single day. He called me the other day to tell me he’s moving up to where I live because he wants to be closer to his friends. we’ve gotten to know each other really well these last few months and our friendship has gotten stronger, but I can’t help but notice how needy he gets if I’m not responsive or if I’m short with him. But then, he calls me bro, or homie, a lot. I’m getting confused and mixed messages. Does he have feelings for me?

Answer 1

CMC93

Xper 6

He gave me a headache-Way too many mixed messages. It seems like he is keeping you in his back pocket as an option and can't make up his mind. Someone that is really into you, will not keep you waiting and guessing like that. I would be out.

Asker

22 d
You are so right! I also have a headache from this... it’s been going on for months and as much as I was hoping things would just fizzle out, our bond has just gotten stronger.

Answer 2

Asker

You are so right! I also have a headache from this... it’s been going on for months and as much as I was hoping things would just fizzle out, our bond has just gotten stronger.

Answer 3

d_mudg

Xper 3

He wants to be with you but he doesn't want to be in the relationship. You shouldn't just sit down and wait for him to pick you first. Life moves on with him or without, cut him off for good.

Asker

22 d
So true... I have been wondering if he still had feelings for me, and if so, why doesn’t he just say something. I hate it

Answer 4

Asker

So true... I have been wondering if he still had feelings for me, and if so, why doesn’t he just say something. I hate it

Answer 5

nicholas25

Xper 3

He might have feelings for you but isn't really sure if you have the same feelings for him as well.

Asker

22 d
Thank you! Here’s the thing I forgot to mention... over the last few months I’ve told him 3x that I liked him and had feelings for him. Each time he friendzoned me. But he’s still doing all of this! So he definitely knows I have feelings... I just don’t know if he does because he’s giving me mixed messages.
nicholas25

22 d
If thats the case move on without him. Besides there a better guys with more quality
Asker

22 d
Thank you!

Answer 6

Asker

Thank you! Here’s the thing I forgot to mention... over the last few months I’ve told him 3x that I liked him and had feelings for him. Each time he friendzoned me. But he’s still doing all of this! So he definitely knows I have feelings... I just don’t know if he does because he’s giving me mixed messages.

Answer 7

nicholas25

If thats the case move on without him. Besides there a better guys with more quality

Answer 8

Asker

Thank you!

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