At first it hurt my feelings but now i feel understanding and like its not personal. If i kept allowing myself to get hurt about these guys mean comments, i think id lose my mind.
But yeah, now that i accept these guys for who they are (guys who can be nice but may make rude or mean comments to & about everyone inluding me), we get along better and they seem to be cool with me. Were like buddies not enemies all cuz im not getting bent out of shape anymore.
Im sure i have imperfect habits myself. I can't hold it against these guys... theyre probably going through something if they feel the need to make comments that put others down.
But if both he and i can laugh his sarcastic or whatever comments off, and i dont take myself too seriously, we both seem to feel better and no-one is mad at each other.