I told my boyfriend this morning that I’m aware about him messaging another girl behind my back, and sending her some dick pics then he immediately got mad at me, yelled at me and acted as if I was to blame for, while I wasn’t even angry, I just wanted an explanation in a calm way. It’s the fourth time cause I got cheated by 3 of my ex-boyfriends that also got mad at me when I found out about their side chicks. They would get red, nervous, throw things around and call me names while I did nothing wrong and I must be the one to get mad... why are they acting like that?
because you caught them red-handed (or I should say dick handed) they thought they was getting away with something and you caught them and showed them that they weren't getting away with it you throw it up in their face and said look I know you're sending dick pics and if you haven't fucked her already you're thinking about it or you wouldn't be sending her pictures of your dick , when you find out how people are that they have lied to you and everyone else they instantly hate you they want to do harm to you they want to yell and scream at you because you know their true colors they want to discredit you so that if you tell anyone then you don't know what you're talking about you're not right you lie.. the same happened to me with this girl that I haven't seen for 15 years she was the most beautiful girl you ever laid eyes on about 5 ft maybe 90 lb long black hair dark skin perfect body every time she would see me she would run and wrap her arms around my neck give me the softest hug that I have ever gotten in my life no one has ever given me a hug like that before until one day when I discovered that she was lying that she was a drug whore and she found out what I knew and instantly her attitude changed she wouldn't get within 10 ft of me anymore and if I ever had a disagreement with anyone she would always jump on their side didn't matter what she didn't even know what we was talking about but yet it's all my fault because I knew her true colors and she instantly hated me
SjE78 | 665 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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not just men, women do it too... but it isn't all men or all women just those who know they did wrong and know they are gonna lose everything cos of it... my first girlfriend, cheated for a year and when found out she and her lover got mad cos i found out... denied it as much as they could even when i began getting the evidence against them... after all they can't have people seeing they are the bad apples can they? they might ruin potential future relationships or friendships, views about them may be tainted and people will see them for who they are...
It's the type of guys you date hun. Not all men get mad when you find out they're cheating - some of them actually become apologetic. Shouldn't make a difference though, cheaters are all quite bad.
It seems like your exes have some anger issues, manipulative, toxic...
Also sorry you had to go through that. I know how it feels and it sucks!
Chetars are toxic bastards. So they will blame you for each of his actions. It's always easy to blame the women for doing wrong stuff. Also it seems like you need to be way more careful while choosing a partner
Novacane | 133 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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I believe that if you continue to bring it up it can somewhat get annoying to most people. Think of it this way, you made a big mistake and you hate that you did that but now you want to move one from the mistake, but then someone continues to bring it up after you try to move on from it. I believe that you do deserve an explanation but I would say it matters how you approach it and how you say it. If you say it anyway it will come off as agitating to the person.
As for your ex's that got mad after you found out that they had side chicks, that is just a victim mentality. They don't want to feel as bad for what they are doing so they find it easier to get mad at someone else for their mistakes.
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jshm2 | 583 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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You're confused. They are only your boyfriends, not your husbands. They are not "cheating" on you, and you've got no evidence to claim different.
Perhaps be less accusatory and more upfront about you being a control freak and jealous for attention. To the extent you won't tolerate them talking to other women.
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You mean that a man should be allowed to sleep with other women behind his girlfriend’s back?
people don't like being accused of wrongdoing, weather or not it's true. It's normal for someone to get defensive when accused, although if the guy is throwing things across the room and start belittling you over it, it's time to bail out on the relationship.
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Unit1 | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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Duh. You caught them. Would you get mad if someone robbed your bank account? Of course you would.
Because he wants to hide his fault and act immaturely on it making you seem like you're the one who's at fault and what he's doing is 'normal'. Shitty behavior in my opinion.
He’s just trying to deflect and make you feel bad because he’s immature and he’s been caught out. Throwing stuff sounds abusive though. Doesn’t sound like you’ve had very good luck.
... If Mr. Goodman was a relationship therapist, he would be like.. "... What the f*ck are YOU doing"? But really, what are doing? How does the process even get that far? What are you, the FNG?
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It is inherent to human nature to attack that which makes you wrong. For your boyfriends that was you, because you exposed their evil.
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