Do guys get uncomfortable around me when they find out I’m trans because they thought I was cute and talked to their friends about me?

[MrHopper]

I think you might have an initial reconfigure and rethink of the situation. Suddenly some ones idea of reality has changed, this girl is not the girl you first thought... Some guys will level out and go "okay cool" and still tell people how cute you are, others will step back

[Anonymous]

I don’t dislike trans people at all for being trans. I’d dislike them for different things (if there’s something to dislike) like opinions that bad things in politics are good for them and they think it’s a good reason to not care about others or whatever

[TonyV]

It raises a lot of questions that I know better than to ask a trans person, so I might freeze up not sure what to say.

I was talking to a fairly open trans on snapchat so one thing I learned cause she told me about it before I ever even had a chance to ask.
Dont ask about their dead name.

Hell let's just keep to the first obvious questions that pop up like "which genitals does she have and what can they do right now?" If it's a penis does it get hard? Is she hung or small? Does she still have testicles? Without testicles does she still have a sex drive?
If she has a dick that gets hard does she want to do me in the butt or just take it in the butt? If she only has a butthole but doesn't like anal what are we gonna do?


See lots of questions , and frankly those are the only ones I feel are appropriate to use as an example, cause I've got a lot more that dont necessary relate to genitals.

Plus simply asking the questions may get us ridiculed. I dont want to get called transphobic if I ask "why did you want to be a girl?" Or "why didn't you like being a boy?"

[nonratracereality]

Deception. You look like what they want until they find out that you are not what they expected si naturally they feel slighted and angry because you may be a woman but not in the traditional sense. So most people are still in the dark about about the differences of sexuality in the world today. Virgins don't know about sex just like the inexperienced or the unknowledgeable people whi ste not privy or interested in other sexuality just what they know and what they want. There are people that know and dont. You have to find those people that side with you as opposed to finding people that don't. You're seen to a degree as a real traditional woman to the perspective partner but once found out its embarrassing and not a comfortable moment for either. Knowledge is power and applying is the key. Stay in your lane you'll be fine step out and see all that does not share your views, opinions and direction in life.

[BeyondCuriosity]

Maybe. Even if they just felt attraction at all, it raises a lot of internal questions about themselves that they might not want to think about. Some of them may even secretly want some sort of relationship with you, but don't feel they can admit that publicly. A lot of straight men struggle with how to process how they feel about trans women.

[Reaperbot666]

if your a good person then i'll be good to them. if your a bad person then i'll just leave you alone.

[AlexDeLarge]

Some might because it would make them question their sexuality. Others might get uncomfortable because they'd feel deceived but I respect you for being straight up about it

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I think that would make them uncomfortable. Maybe not all of them but many would

[nodnol32]

I wouldn't get uncomfortable around you. Trans or not you're still a normal human at the end of the day.

[Dave31989]

i get uncomfortable around just simply because i dont like you, as a person, trans or not

[Kiss_Me]

Because they are not gay.

[Quackthulu]

Don't cool yourself. Nobody thinks you are cute.

[billluc69]

could be

[bigchanges]

send bussy please