We broke up a week ago and he’s already having sex with multiple girls and messing with others , how do guys move on so fast?

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We broke up about a week ago because I asked if this girl and him still messed cause she was subbing him on social media ( a girl he was trying to get at when we were on break ) he blocked me and added her on everything told me I shouldn’t have questioned him about a girl because it’s childish blah blah now he’s messing with some younger girls still in high school he’s about to be 21 .. but he moved on fast for it to be 1 week and some days how?

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MannMitAntworten | 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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Not all “guys” move on that fast no more than all women ‘not’ move on that fast. People move on at different paces and some go about it in different ways. Some were never emotionally invested or lost interest making the transition pretty much instantaneous.

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that’s the thing when I try to break up with him a couple of days before he wasn’t going for it so then we were like fine for like a couple of days and then this girl that used to mess with when we were on a break was like subbing him on Facebook and I seen it and I asked him if they were messing around or still texting he started arguing with me so I just asked her she said no they don’t text but he kept dragging on the argument and then he block me add her back on Facebook by the time she was blocked and then deleted me off Snapchat Facebook and iMessage
MannMitAntworten

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Well, you placed “ex” before him for a reason. Right?
Asker

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Wym?
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MannMitAntworten

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Meaning, you ended the relationship, right? Obviously you had your reasons. His behavior since bothers you so on some level you having ended things coupled with his behavior since has to confirm to you you did right by ending the relationship... right?
Asker

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When I ended it I told him that the relationship was draining and I was getting tired of it he wanted to work things out so I said OK but then we were good for like two days and the next min you know that bs happened and he blocked me
Asker

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I think he’s trying to make it seem like he broke up with me when I was already not feeling a relationship anymore
MannMitAntworten

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He’s part of your old news. If it were me I wouldn’t lose sleep over this individual and not give a damn about his actions since parting ways. Again, if it were me.
Asker

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Yeah surprisingly like any other time we will break up I will cry and stuff and beg him know I just don’t care it’s just a simple fact how are you like having sex with all these girls already
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MannMitAntworten

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Try and block him from your memory. Better does exist.

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Asker

that’s the thing when I try to break up with him a couple of days before he wasn’t going for it so then we were like fine for like a couple of days and then this girl that used to mess with when we were on a break was like subbing him on Facebook and I seen it and I asked him if they were messing around or still texting he started arguing with me so I just asked her she said no they don’t text but he kept dragging on the argument and then he block me add her back on Facebook by the time she was blocked and then deleted me off Snapchat Facebook and iMessage

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MannMitAntworten

Well, you placed “ex” before him for a reason. Right?

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MannMitAntworten

Meaning, you ended the relationship, right? Obviously you had your reasons. His behavior since bothers you so on some level you having ended things coupled with his behavior since has to confirm to you you did right by ending the relationship... right?

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Asker

When I ended it I told him that the relationship was draining and I was getting tired of it he wanted to work things out so I said OK but then we were good for like two days and the next min you know that bs happened and he blocked me

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Asker

I think he’s trying to make it seem like he broke up with me when I was already not feeling a relationship anymore

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MannMitAntworten

He’s part of your old news. If it were me I wouldn’t lose sleep over this individual and not give a damn about his actions since parting ways. Again, if it were me.

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Asker

Yeah surprisingly like any other time we will break up I will cry and stuff and beg him know I just don’t care it’s just a simple fact how are you like having sex with all these girls already

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MannMitAntworten

Try and block him from your memory. Better does exist.

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Anonymous

That's how, literally. A lot of guys "deal" with it this way and by not dealing with it. Just moving on to the next woman. It's not a healthy way, but that's how a lot of guys out there "handle it". If he had feelings for you at all that is. I mean, if he never really cared about you in the first place?

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We were dating on and off for two years but I just don’t understand how when I want to break up he wanted to work everything out i said ok then a couple days later we were fine and everything I asked him about the girl and then he tried to make it seem like I was crazy and then said I’m asking him questions I texted the girl and she said they haven’t texted but he still arguing with me so to me and made it seem like you just want to keep arguing and I was a week later and all he’s posting about that’s how he needs a girl and how he sleeping around with girls and etc

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Asker

We were dating on and off for two years but I just don’t understand how when I want to break up he wanted to work everything out i said ok then a couple days later we were fine and everything I asked him about the girl and then he tried to make it seem like I was crazy and then said I’m asking him questions I texted the girl and she said they haven’t texted but he still arguing with me so to me and made it seem like you just want to keep arguing and I was a week later and all he’s posting about that’s how he needs a girl and how he sleeping around with girls and etc

Answer 13

Hangry22

Guru

He was already banging them when he was with you

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Rohan-Thanekar

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I also feel the same
Asker

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That’s what I was thinking but it’s weird cause a couple of days before I tried to break up with him and he was trying to argue with me then I asked him wviut the girl he was like I’m crazy and all this the girl said they haven’t texted he could’ve just said no then he blocked me on everything
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Asker

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He still watches me from his friends Snapchat and his post on fb are always talking about him being single and all this
Hangry22

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He is a toxic guy and is gaslighting you. He was probably taking time to decide to let you go or not. That's what such guys do. They latch onto good girls and mess up their brains
Hangry22

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he is checking to see if you have moved on which is not what he wants. If you get over him and jump onto some guy, his ego will be hurt
Asker

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That’s exactly what I thought cause when I asked him about the girl he was like oh it’s the morning and I’m crazy and something is wrong with me 😭lol then blocked me the girl was like they haven’t texted but he was doing a lot he could’ve just said I didn’t text her instead he caused an argument and blocked me then my friend sees what he post on fb and it’s always him bragging about cheating , having sex and lying to females and I guess he’s having sex and texting multiple girls but like damn a week

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Rohan-Thanekar

I also feel the same

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Asker

That’s what I was thinking but it’s weird cause a couple of days before I tried to break up with him and he was trying to argue with me then I asked him wviut the girl he was like I’m crazy and all this the girl said they haven’t texted he could’ve just said no then he blocked me on everything

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Asker

He still watches me from his friends Snapchat and his post on fb are always talking about him being single and all this

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Hangry22

He is a toxic guy and is gaslighting you. He was probably taking time to decide to let you go or not. That's what such guys do. They latch onto good girls and mess up their brains

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Hangry22

he is checking to see if you have moved on which is not what he wants. If you get over him and jump onto some guy, his ego will be hurt

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Asker

That’s exactly what I thought cause when I asked him about the girl he was like oh it’s the morning and I’m crazy and something is wrong with me 😭lol then blocked me the girl was like they haven’t texted but he was doing a lot he could’ve just said I didn’t text her instead he caused an argument and blocked me then my friend sees what he post on fb and it’s always him bragging about cheating , having sex and lying to females and I guess he’s having sex and texting multiple girls but like damn a week

Answer 21

BeyondCuriosity

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I'm guessing one of two things happened. Either he was ready to break up for a good long while before it actually happened, or he's hurt by the breakup and is trying to fill the void with sex. Based on him blocking you and such, I'm leaning toward the first scenario. On the bright side, him moving on should make it easier for you to move on. He's officially in the past now.

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Barbaric

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He was already trying to get with her while you were on a break, he'd moved on before your relationship had even finished. He sounds like a retard anyway, choose better next time.

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john23232323

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Because guys are smart and they don't waste time crying about some other girls like girls do. They just go out and make things happen.

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Asker

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So a relationship done for a week and a guy fucking everything and messing with everything is smart?
john23232323

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Why wouldn't it be? He's living his life and you're worrying about him on forums. Seems like he won this.
Asker

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Debatable 😭😭 lmao
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Asker

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It sounds immature to me
john23232323

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@iamtahj why is it immature? You're not his girlfriend anymore. You have no place in his life so he's living for himself.

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Asker

So a relationship done for a week and a guy fucking everything and messing with everything is smart?

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john23232323

Why wouldn't it be? He's living his life and you're worrying about him on forums. Seems like he won this.

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Asker

Debatable 😭😭 lmao

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Asker

It sounds immature to me

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john23232323

@iamtahj why is it immature? You're not his girlfriend anymore. You have no place in his life so he's living for himself.

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Sam23685

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Not all guys are the same. I split with my girlfriend 8 months ago and havnt did anything.

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We broke up a week ago and he’s already having sex with multiple girls and messing with others , how do guys move on so fast?

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