Why is this such a hard concept for guys to understand?

[Kiss_Me]

Its hard to find a quality guy, just like its hard for guys to find a quality gals.

I recommend this to everyone that cares to listen:
- Date causally. Date does NOT = new relationship.
- Date multiple people at the same time. Don't lie. Tell them all you date multiple people. (This alone will separate the men from the boys)
- Only go on DATES. You meet, enjoy an activity together, and you go home. Hanging out, watching a movie at home, etc are relationship activities. Avoid them. It is to intimate and easily leads to sex.
- Only see each guy about once a week. Lunches, dinners, and some week end plans or two are great for this.

Eventually, someone will rise to the top of the heap. That is the guy will want to see more that the others. Eventually, you will want to see him exclusively. Congratulations, you are now in the beginning stages of a healthy relationship.

[nawtee_me]

They can not face their feeling and talk about them to any girl. They talk about them to other guys because they understand and won't ask questions... I am sorry this has happened to you, it should not... Ever... Communication is the key in any relationship. ;)

[GingerGuy]

Women don't either and it's because they don't want to hurt the other person. You can tell them all you want that they won't, but it still make you feel bad. And it's an awkward conversation and makes people uncomfortable, which is why there's so much ghosting today (really sad). I agree with you totally, if there was just honest open communication, there'd be so much less hurt feelings and bad situations, but very few people are actually like this, even if they want to be.

[Anonymous]

Because a liar will always lie. They're a pieces of shit and characterless MANWHORES. They SHOULD DIE. 😡They're greedy assholes who know that their woman loves them deeply and he wanna 'appear nice' so that he can use his woman. I've broken my ex's bones for betraying me badly and lying to me. No female likes him because he's disabled now. I had enough of lies. This is the 3rd time and with the worst manipulator.

[Jjpayne]

I think they are so used to playing the game with other girls or are so used to playing their own game that they don't want to stop.

For me, I would love that in a girl. Straight forward cut and dry is perfect

[Reaperbot666]

expect some girls ask their partner loaded questions. that they all but have to lie about. or risk them going full phycho mode. when you tell them the truth about some things. even if they say upfront they just want honestly from their partner. which is why some guys end up staying with abusive girls. because if they try to leave her she'll do much worse to him.

[Anonymous]

Because they are willing to lie and try to keep you around for the sake of getting sex from a woman they aren't that into because the one they are really into and chasing won't give it up or flat out reject them.. some of them are Fuckin weasels.

[MCheetah]

I think most guys can easily do this. It's usually WOMEN who have a problem with honesty and telling them the no-nonsense, no-feelings-spared truth.

P M me, @Simplismilez. I really want to ask you a few questions.

[pizzalovershouse]

Cuz most guys think they have to sound smart funny also be strong an have to sound rich to get a girl so they try to be more than they are then hurt girls when the girl finds out its a lie i worked with a guy who lived with his grandmother an told girls he dated that hw lived with a roommate that was a nut but when they found out he lied they dumped him till he finally got 1 girlfriend he was truthful with said i live with my grandmother cuz he lost his place when he list a great job

[bklynbadboy1]

Cause there scared of loosing you. Its not so cute and dry as you thing take me for instance I'm brutally honest and people say I'm rude but if om not then I'm a liar

[Hermes-Paris]

Completely honest? Sounds kinda boring. Until you say the wrong thing... " Do you think my sister is hot? Like hotter than me?" And that's how I got my broken nose your honor.

[TheAlbanianWoman]

Real guys understand that

[Anonymous]

Yeah right.

This is a recipe for disaster.

[Lonelywolfxl]

We understand 😡