Why do guys stalk their crush online instead of contacting her?

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Answer 1

Xper 5

People are saying fear of rejection but I just think it’s immaturity. Both men and women do it, and though everyone is afraid of being rejected, some people actually take the next step and reach out to you. If someone can’t even reach out to me to say hi, what’s the point, really? In my experience, we’ll just be dealing with that “fear of rejection” throughout the whole relationship and it’ll become a game of one person proving their loyalty and the other person being insecure. No thanks.

Answer 2

Isabellaxo

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I guess because it's "safer". You have more time to reply, hence you can come up with witty responses/jokes without being nervous about your looks/facial expressions.

Answer 3

Kaneki05 | 419 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

My favorite pass time lol. Well why else would anyone do it? because they don't want to tell you they like you. Nor want you to not have the same feelings which 9/10 is the way it goes.

Asker

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would you stalk daily if you're not attracted to her, like she's just your normal friend?
Kaneki05

12 d
Hmm i dunno. Depends how close of a friend i think.
Asker

12 d
meaning you would do that only if you have feelings for her?
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Kaneki05

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Yeah i think so. Otherwise what would be the point.

Answer 4

Asker

would you stalk daily if you're not attracted to her, like she's just your normal friend?

Answer 5

Kaneki05

Hmm i dunno. Depends how close of a friend i think.

Answer 6

Asker

meaning you would do that only if you have feelings for her?

Answer 7

Kaneki05

Yeah i think so. Otherwise what would be the point.

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LiamSawyer | 139 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Fear of rejection is probably the biggest reason guys don't take a chance in reality or online.

LiamSawyer

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My question is due to being anonymous would I want to contact you? As lame as it sounds physical attraction is often the first motivation to contact a woman, especially online. I've been attracted to a woman in realty because I've been able to observe how beautiful her personality and outlook on life was vs her physical appearance.
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what if the guy stalks her last seen daily?

Answer 9

LiamSawyer

My question is due to being anonymous would I want to contact you? As lame as it sounds physical attraction is often the first motivation to contact a woman, especially online. I've been attracted to a woman in realty because I've been able to observe how beautiful her personality and outlook on life was vs her physical appearance.

Answer 10

Asker

what if the guy stalks her last seen daily?

Answer 11

Joker_ | 809 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

When you find out the answer, let me know

Answer 12

Anonymous

some do some don't depends on the guy

Answer 13

Darealjebus

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Usually afraid of rejection

Why do guys stalk their crush online instead of contacting her?

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