Always? And would you avoid doing things like walking him to the station after you’ve been doing something?
Definitely always, because I’ve learned from “being too nice” and ultimately hurting someone’s feelings. Would I walk him to the station after doing something as a group? I mean I wouldn’t mind but usually it’s the guy wanting to drop a girl off to her destination just to be sure she gets there safe.
So before you did hang out with guys who like you one on one? And would you go out of your way to walk him to the station?
I did, but I don’t anymore, and I wouldn’t anymore. Especially if I know he will think that I like him too. I wouldn’t do anything to encourage that, including walks to the station if he thinks that means I am interested.
What else did you used to do
I’m trying to work out if a friend of mine is just being nice to me or likes me? This is what I’m worried about. She might think this and not be friends with me.
Tbh if I were you I’d just ask her. The worst she can do is say no, and even then that would suck, but it won’t kill you. You may end up pleasantly surprised! But on the chance that she doesn’t like you, if she is a nice, down to earth girl then she will still be your friend. I’ll still friends with two of my guy friends that asked me out.
But your friendship with them isn’t the same as a result right? I really value her friendship and I’m worried about ruining it.
Honestly, unless they are feeling differently, I’ve been the same and I don’t feel like our friendship has suffered. I’m a practical person and I know it takes a lot of guts to tell someone you like them, or to ask them out. I won’t hold that against someone. Unless they did that more than once, then I’d feel uncomfortable because it would give the impression that they don’t respect my stance, and will always want more with me.
I’d always respect anyone’s choice. And to be honest, my biggest fear is that I give the impression I don’t or that I just used friendship as a back door to a relationship. Fear of losing the friendship comes next. I’m not even that bothered about being rejected. It’s those first 2 things that bother me
So how do you act towards someone you like romantically compared to someone you just see as a close friend?
What if you’re not sure if he likes you? Or you don’t think he likes you? Would you hang out with him alone?
I mean, I've always been right on that. It's a vibe I always feel, and I pay close attention to behaviors, but I would make sure I know if I weren't sure. I have a very friendly and flirty personality I can't control, and I wouldn't want to mess with his emotions, so I would refrain from spending alone time with him. If I don't think he likes me, then ya, of course, I would hang out with him alone!
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