Is it bad that I'm mostly starting conversation with my crush although he carries our conversation?

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He seems to like talking to me on online. His answers are decent and sometimes even long. He uses a lot of emojis and he jokes with me.

I'm just sad that I have to be the one to text him first. I feel liie if I don't start conversation first he won't reach out to me at all.

Stop texting with him

Keep texting him first

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Answer 1

FlutteringFeelings | 252 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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If you have to always start the conversation with your crush then you have to ask yourself “Is he actually interested in me”. He cannot commit his full time to you because he’s directing his time elsewhere. It’s like having two jobs. I want to make a living but the job that I find is worth more of my time and a greater investment I’ll be there more often. As for the second job it’s decent and it pays and I’ll most likely be there twice a week or once a week just to check in and remain in the work system. Where he feels more comfortable he will invest his time there.
If you’re always initiating everything, step back, and let time tell what you should do next. Texting him isn’t going to bring him in closer but only push him away.

cocacola222

15 d
not everyone is a texter though. if he's continuing the convo, i'd say he's interested. some guys just don't like to initiate simply because they don't want to disturb her. "if she's free she'll initiate" is what they usually think
FlutteringFeelings

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If he’s not a texter then I’m sure he’ll call. If he’s not a caller then he’ll video chat. If he’s not a video chat person then he’ll make arrangements to try and meet you in person as much as he can. Where there’s a will there’s a way. Of course he’ll think “if she’s free she’ll initiate” and wouldn’t have an issue if he’s not interested in being the first to make the conversation.

If you think he’s interested then go with what you feel but always know that if a guy is interested he’ll let that be know and show it consistently with his actions. If he’s not communicating then he’s not interested.

Answer 2

cocacola222

not everyone is a texter though. if he's continuing the convo, i'd say he's interested. some guys just don't like to initiate simply because they don't want to disturb her. "if she's free she'll initiate" is what they usually think

Answer 3

FlutteringFeelings

If he’s not a texter then I’m sure he’ll call. If he’s not a caller then he’ll video chat. If he’s not a video chat person then he’ll make arrangements to try and meet you in person as much as he can. Where there’s a will there’s a way. Of course he’ll think “if she’s free she’ll initiate” and wouldn’t have an issue if he’s not interested in being the first to make the conversation.

If you think he’s interested then go with what you feel but always know that if a guy is interested he’ll let that be know and show it consistently with his actions. If he’s not communicating then he’s not interested.

Is it bad that I'm mostly starting conversation with my crush although he carries our conversation?

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