If a guy knows that I’m trying to get his attention what will he think?

Question

So this guy I dated he knows that I try to gain his attention and he does look at me every now nd then whenever he sees me.

Answer 1

serious | 3.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

If you are trying to get his attention in a proper way, a mature way then he will never think anything bad, wrong or cheap about you because you expecting attention from someone you like is never wrong.

You have not stated in your question what way you are using to get his attention but I am assuming that you are not playing any mind games on him like trying to make him jealous by talking to other guys on purpose or playing hard to get with him. I am assuming you are not doing any of this.

In that case, if you are only using proper ways to get his attention it is absolutely fine. He will think you are a very nice and mature woman.

Asker

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I used to do it while he and I were dating that to get his attention I used to send him a message and then delete it and then he figured I’m doing so to gain his attention and in bw he used to respond to giving it to me later when he nd I were done he didn’t but he knew dats how I gain his attention. So what do ya think?
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@Mystery11137girl

I used to do it while he and I were dating that to get his attention I used to send him a message and then delete it and then he figured I’m doing so to gain his attention and in bw he used to respond to giving it to me later when he nd I were done he didn’t but he knew dats how I gain his attention. So what do ya think?"

Given this info, it is still not a good thing to do but it is something that is easily forgivable. That is not very wrong as such. It is fine.

However, I would still suggest try not to do this. If you want to speak or talk to him then just talk, be honest and be open while talking to him. Men like women who are brave in doing things. Hence please decide on any topic or what you want to say and then just speak.

That is my suggestion.
Asker

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Okay I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve actually become kinda crazy ever since he has left me and so I told him that Nd den I deleted it. He does read message from notifications.
So now?
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@Mystery11137girl

"Okay I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve actually become kinda crazy ever since he has left me and so I told him that Nd den I deleted it. He does read message from notifications.
So now?"

Okay, you said you have become kind of crazy after he left you?

Meaning he ended friendship? or relationship? Anyways if he has left you already and is not interested or doesn't want to talk to you then may I ask why are you so interested in talking to him now?

Did I understand correctly? If not please correct me then.
Asker

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I gain his attention so as to have a physically person present around me and he’s my neighbour so he can do that.
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@Mystery11137girl

Okay
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So den?
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@Mystery11137girl

My Apologies but I didn't understand what exactly are you trying to ask here?

Answer 2

Asker

I used to do it while he and I were dating that to get his attention I used to send him a message and then delete it and then he figured I’m doing so to gain his attention and in bw he used to respond to giving it to me later when he nd I were done he didn’t but he knew dats how I gain his attention. So what do ya think?

Answer 3

serious

@Mystery11137girl

I used to do it while he and I were dating that to get his attention I used to send him a message and then delete it and then he figured I’m doing so to gain his attention and in bw he used to respond to giving it to me later when he nd I were done he didn’t but he knew dats how I gain his attention. So what do ya think?"

Given this info, it is still not a good thing to do but it is something that is easily forgivable. That is not very wrong as such. It is fine.

However, I would still suggest try not to do this. If you want to speak or talk to him then just talk, be honest and be open while talking to him. Men like women who are brave in doing things. Hence please decide on any topic or what you want to say and then just speak.

That is my suggestion.

Answer 4

Asker

Okay I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve actually become kinda crazy ever since he has left me and so I told him that Nd den I deleted it. He does read message from notifications.
So now?

Answer 5

serious

@Mystery11137girl

"Okay I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve actually become kinda crazy ever since he has left me and so I told him that Nd den I deleted it. He does read message from notifications.
So now?"

Okay, you said you have become kind of crazy after he left you?

Meaning he ended friendship? or relationship? Anyways if he has left you already and is not interested or doesn't want to talk to you then may I ask why are you so interested in talking to him now?

Did I understand correctly? If not please correct me then.

Answer 6

Asker

I gain his attention so as to have a physically person present around me and he’s my neighbour so he can do that.

Answer 7

serious

@Mystery11137girl

Okay

Answer 8

Asker

So den?

Answer 9

serious

@Mystery11137girl

My Apologies but I didn't understand what exactly are you trying to ask here?

Answer 10

Berethor | 207 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

He would likely think that you want to date him again, considering that you dated him.

Answer 11

Avicenna | 3.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He’ll wonder what you really want

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He has asked me that question
Avicenna

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What did you tell him?
Asker

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Didn’t say anything clearly

Answer 12

Asker

He has asked me that question

Answer 13

Avicenna

What did you tell him?

Answer 14

Asker

Didn’t say anything clearly

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