This guy is weird & confusing what is going on?

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My ex & I ended pretty badly. I gave him time (a month or so) he said he needed more time & we probably wouldn’t work out. A week went by I didn’t contact him I accepted & respected what he said, but then he texted me saying how he’s sorry for everything but we couldn’t be together so I said okkk thanks for nicely saying it I don't know lol then he called me & we talked about our issues still laughed & joked. He said I’ll come see you before we got off the phone. I didn’t push it or anything because plans never followed through. The same night (like 12am) he called me later asking if I could bring him a charger to work. My house is pretty far from his job but I did it anyway he sat in my car for an hr talking he asked me how did I feel about everything I expressed all my feelings & I do miss him he said he misses me too & kissed me (for awhile) told me to call him & once again “I’ll be over to see you” & Today he pretty much said never mind I’m done. I don’t trust your words. WTF lol weirdest thing I’ve experienced! I truly do love him it’s just I’m not confused about my feelings & I’d rather not talk to him if he’s so unsure I don't know why someone would that to someone it did hurt me a lot

Answer 1

Anonymous

He sounds confused af, let him go. there's no point entertaining a confused man, it's such a waste of time and ur jus gna regret it because ur gna end up in this same exact situation again and again, ur going to keep getting hurt. I was in this same situation too, it never changes, its just a rollercoaster ALL THE TIME, its emotionally draining and painful. u deserve to be with someone who isn't EVER gna doubt their feelings for you, who knows they want you AND ONLY YOU! and who wants to commit to u 100%. You deserve the best and only the best, not to be treated like some option. LET THAT MAN GO SIS !!

Answer 2

Gooblegobble | 100 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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He wants you around as a hookup and he's just a tool.

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We haven’t didn’t anything sexual though
Gooblegobble

5 d
Not yet, but when a guy you aren't dating says he'll come over, that's what he's looking for. He keeps changing his mind because he doesn't want to be with you. If you really want to be with someone, I don't think you ever need time unless there was a serious breach of trust.
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He believes there was an issue with trust. No cheating but I didn’t tell him about something from my past it’s not a big deal to me. I respect him enough to understand that it’s a big deal to him i just don’t understand the back & fourth.
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Gooblegobble

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Then end it. He will never trust you and it may be deserved. You aren't right for each other and you're going to both get hurt all over again. Just let it be done.

Answer 3

Asker

We haven’t didn’t anything sexual though

Answer 4

Gooblegobble

Not yet, but when a guy you aren't dating says he'll come over, that's what he's looking for. He keeps changing his mind because he doesn't want to be with you. If you really want to be with someone, I don't think you ever need time unless there was a serious breach of trust.

Answer 5

Asker

He believes there was an issue with trust. No cheating but I didn’t tell him about something from my past it’s not a big deal to me. I respect him enough to understand that it’s a big deal to him i just don’t understand the back & fourth.

Answer 6

Gooblegobble

Then end it. He will never trust you and it may be deserved. You aren't right for each other and you're going to both get hurt all over again. Just let it be done.

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