Why is he even bothering with me? Is he scared of me or something?

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I’m in so much confusion lately. So this guy and I met at the beginning of the semester. We’ve hooked up a few times but that’s all. He always says hey or talks to me around Campus, but hardly ever texts me. So I was always the one texting him first asking to hang. I eventually got tired of always being the one texting him so I stopped. We would still say hey to each other out in public but I wouldn’t text him anymore. Until a few weeks passed and he texted me. He asked If I was “feeling some type of way” and I said no that I was just busy with school. He then proceeded to ask why I didn’t talk to him like I used to and I explained how I just didn’t want to annoy him with my constant texts. He said that I was annoying and that I was “cool asf.” Anyways we cleared it up and we were supposed to hang again after, but then he started acting distant. I’ve been texting him again asking if we’re going to hang but he’s been leaving me on delivered. Usually he would respond quick. I’m just really confused!!! Like how is he going to text me asking why I wasn’t texting him and the minute I start texting him again he doesn’t really respond? But he’ll still speak to me in person? 😂😂please I just need a guys opinion because this entire situation is just annoying

Answer 1

spartan55 | 13.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

So, he's cool in person (the important thing), but sucks at texting (the stupid unimportant thing)... hmmmm tough one

Answer 2

TallAnon | 1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

He just wants you to want him. That's all.
It's pretty common nowadays that people are looking for others to care.

Answer 3

Dave31989 | 394 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Explorer

so you met, and you're easy. yikes

Asker

17 d
Wow and you’re 31 still calling women easy when they know what they want. Men like you are the issue. Also by the way no we hung out before anything, so next time don’t make assumptions. Thanks :)
Asker

17 d
Also it’s called dominance Dave, maybe that’s why you haven’t found one yet. Good luck though!
Dave31989

17 d
easy slut
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Asker

17 d
Someone’s hurt😂. Who even says slut anymore? Dave honey if you’re going to try to offend me just call me a hoe or that I belong to the streets. Stay up to date sweetheart, you’re falling behind.
Dave31989

17 d
but you're not taking money for sex

although at this point, youd be good at it.. you're easy after all
Asker

17 d
I’m “easy” cause I know what I want and don’t that crap from no man. Sadly you wouldn’t understand. Bless your heart. Best wishes
Dave31989

17 d
you've no idea how men work, do you

Answer 4

Asker

Wow and you’re 31 still calling women easy when they know what they want. Men like you are the issue. Also by the way no we hung out before anything, so next time don’t make assumptions. Thanks :)

Answer 5

Asker

Also it’s called dominance Dave, maybe that’s why you haven’t found one yet. Good luck though!

Answer 6

Dave31989

easy slut

Answer 7

Asker

Someone’s hurt😂. Who even says slut anymore? Dave honey if you’re going to try to offend me just call me a hoe or that I belong to the streets. Stay up to date sweetheart, you’re falling behind.

Answer 8

Dave31989

but you're not taking money for sex

although at this point, youd be good at it.. you're easy after all

Answer 9

Asker

I’m “easy” cause I know what I want and don’t that crap from no man. Sadly you wouldn’t understand. Bless your heart. Best wishes

Answer 10

Dave31989

you've no idea how men work, do you

Why is he even bothering with me? Is he scared of me or something?

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