DDoes anyome actually report boys for sexual or other harassment at work? And did you get to keep your job or did he get fired?

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I work min wage retail. I can see nobody in HR or the bosses would give a damn unless the guy actually touched me. I see people make sex comments and i doubt they get reported. Us women just feel we have to put up with it to keep our jobs.

If i reported every sexual harassment id probably be in the HR office 1/3 od my time at work.

I just dont see how reporting harassment unelss its indisputable like he gabbed my butt or he slapped my face...
I dont see how it could work in my favor?

Especially in my current scenario where the guy is the MOST FAVORITE worker of my female boss and my boss is a cold female who doesn't seem to care about anyone except herself.

She is a bully herself.

Its easy for people to tell me "quit and find a new job". This is coronavirus times. Its not a joke.

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SueShe | 644 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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If you feel that your are the victim of sexual harassment and think that your company's HR and supervisor/manager will not take action against the predator, you have other options to your disposition.

Read this article on that topic

https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/fighting-sexual-harassment-29532.html#:~:text=Even%20if%20your%20company%20doesn,or%20informing%20a%20company%20executive.

I have reported boys for sexual harassment at school and my accusations have been taken seriously.

If you are afraid of the negative consequences for you, you can still report the offender to a government agency. Good luck.

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Wise4myage | 5.9K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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In this situation, I think it would better for you to look for another job or just quit and get out of that toxic environment.

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Nobody hiring me. Would u quit a job that was otherwise one of your most beneficial options for being harassed?
Wise4myage

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I don't understand your comment.
Wievyvevrct

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I quit then what? I have no job. You would leave a good job cause someone harasses you?
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Wise4myage

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@Wievyvevrct No, you look for and find a job before quitting the old one. And learn to stand up for yourself from now on.
Wievyvevrct

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How do ou stand up?
Wise4myage

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@Wievyvevrct By being strong and not taking anyone's shit.
Wievyvevrct

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By doing what? At first i was shocked wen he started abusing me mentally... I was quiet and trying to figure out if that really happened. Then as it kept happening , i kept being quiet. I am a nice girl. I dont know how to tell assholes anything.
Wise4myage

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@Wievyvevrct Google standing up for oneself.

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Asker

Nobody hiring me. Would u quit a job that was otherwise one of your most beneficial options for being harassed?

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Wise4myage

I don't understand your comment.

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Wievyvevrct

I quit then what? I have no job. You would leave a good job cause someone harasses you?

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Wise4myage

@Wievyvevrct No, you look for and find a job before quitting the old one. And learn to stand up for yourself from now on.

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Wievyvevrct

How do ou stand up?

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Wise4myage

@Wievyvevrct By being strong and not taking anyone's shit.

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Wievyvevrct

By doing what? At first i was shocked wen he started abusing me mentally... I was quiet and trying to figure out if that really happened. Then as it kept happening , i kept being quiet. I am a nice girl. I dont know how to tell assholes anything.

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Wise4myage

@Wievyvevrct Google standing up for oneself.

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Anonymous

Women will claim sexual harassment for shit that used to be considered flirting (and still is, if she likes him back).
In most cares it isn’t harassment, it’s basic male female interactions.

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Iron_Man | 10.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

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It should be reported

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Anonymous

I reported a female and she was fired

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