How to tell if a guy is just using you for sex or if he sees you as a potential girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

It really depends on the guy as we are all different. I'd talk to him and ask if he's looking for a relationship at all or interested in the possibility? But if you can't do that, some possible "signs" are really the same as if a woman was interested in a guy. Do they ever ask and want to get to know you as a person or take any interest in your life? Is it always sexual and nothing else? Having said that, even if your relationship as been all sexual (and every guy would like sex), that doesn't necessarily mean that he's not also interested in a relationship if you were. But you'd have to talk to him and ask.

[that1guy19]

Does he only hit you up when he is horny? Does he try to fuck every time your together? If you don't fuck when you hang out did he get upset? All that is signs he just wants sex.
If you chill and have fun without sex and he keeps coming back and isn't upset then he likes you and the sex

[Kaneki05]

Easy to tell really. Unless he is an expert at pretending to be interested in other topics but most ain't. Just spend time with him and see if most convos and time together are about anything but sex. More it's about sex the more problems you will have.

[Grond21]

Well he's definitely using you for sex. The question is if he also sees you as a potential girlfriend in addition. And in order to figure that out you have to look at his actions after he is sexually satisfied. if he really wants to spend time with you after that and get to know you more, then that's not a bad sign. But if he only wants to flatter you and get to know you before sex then it's all about sex to him

[karangill]

if he is successful in his life and decides to spend his free time with you, he maybe wants your company because successful men have plenty of options. If you are hanging out with someone who is needy and desperate and going nowhere have no vision, is a coward, undisciplined. then you know what to do even if he sees you as a girlfriend to not.

[Everyoneisplastic]

Tell him you want to wait for sex. Pretty simple. If he cares about you, he'd be happy that you'd want to wait.

[virgin20]

It really depends on the type of guy your with. If he's a confident bloke it's hard to say, what's his count?
Myself I would never use a girl for sex purely because I'd only go for a girl if I seen a future with her

[Miristheiss]

Wait to have sex.
Take your time.
He will bail if sex is his goal and not a real relationship with you.

[Tyrant__33]

He'll constantly talk about sex without considering your mood

[In_Trance]

keep your clothes on and see how long he stays around

[bamesjond0069]

If you aren't sure then its just sex.