Is it normal to like older men?

Question

I'll start off by saying this. I have never had a father figure in my life. It had always been my mother. My grandpa and uncle were there, but we never have been close to each other.

Now, even at a young age, I feel attracted to older men. I fantasize about getting together with a man in his late 30s. I feel it's a little disturbing, but I have no idea why I think about it. It would be VERY illegal, and I know, but I still want it to happen.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Super normal actually. I'm not sure how old you are, but unless you're at least 16 and have a good head on your shoulders, I'd be careful about letting that fantasy become a reality. Women, especially young ones, attach easy during sex, and you gotta protect yourself.

Answer 2

Dchrls78104 | 864 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Once you're under 18 (in my country) it's a bad idea. Frankly, you would have nothing of any value to add to his life. Lengthy jail time and a lifetime of the stigma of pervert and paedophile are hardly any man's fantasy; and he could not expect you to support him if he had to go through either of these for being with you. If you want anything to happen, and you really love and respect such a man, you should wait until you are at least 18 first.

Answer 3

Iron_Man | 6.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

There’s another girl in here and she’s like actually 17 and had a crush on her 60 year old eye doctor when she was eight years old and she still likes older men to this day

Asker

11 d
I am turning 15 in June and have always had a thing for older men. Maybe it's all the trauma lmao

Answer 4

Asker

I am turning 15 in June and have always had a thing for older men. Maybe it's all the trauma lmao

Answer 5

slatyb | 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

It's totally normal to like some older men. Don't worry about it.

Answer 6

SunnySri

Xper 6

Mam you must wait until you are major, after that you can date anyone.
And about it being normal to like an older guy, I think it is ok.

Answer 7

In_Trance | 2.8K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Yes it is

Answer 8

lonlynchi5

Xper 4

Sure p. m. me let's chat

Answer 9

Anonymous

How old are you?

Asker

8 d
turnng 15, quite young, but can't help what I like?
Opinion Owner

8 d
3 years is a long time to wait. But I would recommend that you do so before acting on your desires.

Answer 10

Asker

turnng 15, quite young, but can't help what I like?

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

3 years is a long time to wait. But I would recommend that you do so before acting on your desires.

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