Does he really even want to date me if he wants to wait until I’m 21?

[boggboss]

He could feel you are not mature enough yet and that the year may help out many young 20s treat relationships how teens treat them demanding a crazy amount of time social and romantic when as you grow older and mature more you understand that time simply can't only be spent on a relationship

[nawtee_me]

For me age is just a number. I find it hard to date girls younger for that same reason. Not on my part but they see age as a factor. For you it is 10 months, but would 10 years older bother you? just asking?

[Drumlin2001]

Seems a little odd, more understandable if you were 17 amd he was saying 18. You need to talk to him about it

[ik9999]

It sounds pretty weird. There is no reason for waiting once you are 18 (legal stuff). He is just not interested at this moment, maybe you are his 2nd or 3rd option.

[DavidFox]

No, if he was attracted to you he would plan a date right now.

[DWornock]

If you have to ask, he is not that interested. He is just being nice.

[loveslongnails]

Sounds like bullshit to me. The only thing you can't legally do in the USA is drink. If he wanted you, why wouldn't he be going out with you now?

I say he's full of shit.

[kikino]

Maybe so your of legal drinking age if your in the US.

[LeoElias]

Not that interested in you. I'm sorry

[flashgrandad]

Sounds like he is stringing you along.

[meeso13]

No he's stalling