So 6 years ago I met this guy from university We were attracted to each other so started seeing one another We have kissed many times but never had s*x
We were on and off from 2014 to 2016 so I ended things But nothing serious.. not really a real relationship So not sure if he's actually my ex lol
Anyway so he has never deleted me off social media Even when I was in a new real relationship from 2016 to 2019
Now im single And he still always watches my facebook/instagram stories And sometimes he would message me first and asking how Im doing and what Im upto Short conversations
Its hard to tell whether he would still want a relationship with you. He will for sure always have you in his heart, because you had that chemistry, you bonded, and things didn't end badly... From there to saying he still wants you is not that easy. We can't know whats in his head. Maybe he is fond of you because of your past together, but maybe he wonders why it never worked, and maybe he would risk finding out but maybe also he doesn't wanna risk finding out if you guys aren't meant to be together. Maybe its just a nice memory for him.. Well nothing is for sure and we are not in his head. So if he is on your mind you should probably wave at him (: Say something "hey , today I remembered that time we went to... How have you been". Re-establish contact slowly so you can get to deeper conversations progressively. You'll have to ask about his love life, because u never know, he might have a girlfriend. And once that's cleared up, if he is single then u can tell him whats on your mind. Whatever you want with him, be clear about it, so you can save yourself any mixing of emotions. You guys didn't end badly last time, so make sure you communicate well in order to not confuse each other about what your expectations are. People dont do this enough, but being clear straight forward is actually so rewarding, youd be surprised how well things can go when we communicate properly. Good luck
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I asked if he was dating anyone and he said no But yeah we will see how things go Just dont want to scare him off and ask him other questions directly lol
Yea take your time, but always make sure to be clear (: if you think he might not have understood you fully, just say something like "just to make sure, this is what I mean...
Possibly yea, but he might not know how to approach that subject with you. Also possible he just thinks of you two as friends still/or wants to continue being your friend at least. If you’re really curious, you could just politely ask him directly.
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JPrez | 371 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Yoda
1 mo
He is probably still interested but too shy to do something about it. Are you interested in him?
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Curmudgeon | 578 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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1 mo
I think he would be. The question you have to ask yourself is: is that what YOU want?
I I think he’s into you nd wants sthng with you again. And guys usually approach a girl if they want sthng from her exception if u r a Frnd or a colleague.
He takes his time to keep in contact & keeps up on how an what she is doing in life. Only two kinds of men do this a stalker lol & a guy that's interested but maybe they keep having missed opportunities with her.
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morganlove | 128 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Xper 5
1 mo
Unless he has someone by His side Already, checking in on you is very probably questioning whether it’s possible to see you again
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Wise4myage | 995 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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It sounds like he is, but you won't know till you ask, right?
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Anonymous
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Maybe he isn't interested in a relationship anymore but just wants to stay in touch/be friends.
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