Men, what makes you lose respect for a woman?

[MCheetah]

She says she's 1. a feminist/social justice warrior/woke. I literally can't think of anything worse than that other than "false rape accuser" or "animal abuser" to make me immediately lose all respect for a woman instantly. Hate and bigotry isn't sexy ladies, and neither is stupidity, insecurity, and bitchiness, and it's not "cute" to play the victim and sh*t all over men for social media cred. "Feminist" sums up all of those traits in one word pretty accurately, in my opinion.

There's other things, too. 2. Being violent and expecting not to get five across the face; 3. the aforementioned false rape accusing, and 4. animal abusing, as well as 5. negligent parenting, and 6. cheating. 7. Shallowness in dating, such as height requirements. 8. Being a diva/entitled. 9. Hypocrites. And 10. constant liars.

Oh, and a personal one for me (and me alone, I guess) is 11. if she claims she's "bisexual," aka an attention whore who's either stuck in the closet and doesn't like the label of "lesbian," or trying to show off. I can't STAND pseudo-lesbians! They make real queer women look bad.

And while I wouldn't lose respect for her, 12. smoking is a pretty big turn-off for me, as well.

[Whaler]

A lot really. Perhaps I’m a bit picky but things that make me lose respect for women when they
Overuse drugs.
I think it’s acceptable to use a drug once or twice out of curiosity. However many women, especially around my age, use alcohol, weed, and unfortunately some other drugs a lot more than once or twice.
A lot of bodies
Listen I know a lot of you are going to get heated by this. Honestly this applies to both genders but we’re talking women here. A lot of guys will say they don’t care about bodies. However the overwhelming majority, at least from whom I’ve discussed this with have always cared about the body count. Some men are into a lot of bodies because they think “more experience” others don’t, because the women is “used”. I’m abstinent soo...

Stupid choices
This really goes with the last two, but a lot of girls will deliberately do stupid things and continue to do stupid things and never learn from them. I lose respect for people like that for the obvious reasons. Especially the mistakes that hurt them like a certain guy type or action. And on some grounds it just starts feeling like they’re stupid. Stupidity isn’t very fun.

Those are really my biggest three.

[The_Inquisitor]

many reasons.

I grew up in the hood so I avoid girls who act super ghetto and are or act ignorant.

I like a girl who can speak in proper sentences and are respectful.

I especially respect a women who can work hard, make money and not bitch and complain about how hard life is. Life is hard for everyone not just you.

I respect a women who doesn't need to flaunt their body for money or attention to feel good about themselves.

I respect a women who keeps their political opinion out of conversations they are unwelcomed in.

I lose respect for a women if they depend on me to support them financially.

I lose respect for a women if they refuse to grow up and stop partying and acting like nothing they do is serious or impactful onto their future or onto others around them.

I lose respect for a women if they have serious addictive habits such as smoking, drinking, drugs (I have a daughter so I cut all of that shit out of my life)

I lose respect for a women if they have too many double standards.

I lose respect for a women if they feel the need to insult me or cuss me out when they are upset and I have not done anything to them.

I could go on but it would be tedious too.

[PrudentGuy]

#1) desperation. I always run away from a desperate girl.

2) feminists. It appears that the meaning is different for individuals. My definition is the feminist who is an extremist, protecting the cause just to show men that women can. A form of revengeful attitude that will make sure a man is skinned to the bone just becauae he did something wrong.

Example is Alyssa Milano who just want to bankrupt her husband and start a movement against men because she wants to show men that she can.

3) faking.
Not the bedroom faking, but the kind that likes to show herself in the limelight.

Example mix only with guys and when a girl is near her, intentionally pick her up to show the guys she cares. for her, give her candy, etc. (A real caring girl does all these in a corner, a faker does it for all men to see, because she suddenly spoke so loudly "hello child, do you want a candy".)

I think these are the "critical mass" of whether I'll ask her out. No. Whoever are such I'll not even introduce myself when I observe her from far.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I don't know how true these may be, because I've only heard some say them about women, so I'm looking at it from the perspective that it's true:

Arguing with someone, even when they know they're wrong and then crying, to distract from that.

Picking fights with their partner, just because their bored.

Telling everything to their friends, including private information about their partner, nothing wrong with telling your friends that your partner is a sweetheart, but if you're going to tell them something that you know it private and personal, then that's just being a dick.

[Kurαȷ]

Lack of exclusivity, as in- promiscuity, low standards, desperation, availability, partying etc.
And also, of course, drugs and criminal behavior.

If a person is only just a bitch, I may dislike them but not necessarily lack respect for them.

[Knighted2170]

On here, when they contact me and say hi. Then the next thing I get is asking If I want a BJ.

I know nothing about you. Can I at least, please, get to know you first.

IRL, they complain about others or constantly complain about their problems.

[Anon621]

The minute I see a woman manipulating someone else, a woman who is only interested in dating someone who has a lot of money, and also a woman who posts her instagram or other social media or just "ask me" in her bio. Nah dude I don't know what you want me to ask you thanks. I can understand you might not have a lot to say about yourself but I rather you just leave it at that instead of trying to gain followers or make me try to guess what I should ask you

[TylerKuykendall]

Disrespecting of other people.

If she's a feminist and eventually confirms the negative preconceptions I'd have towards that.

Litters.

Says "The only good snake/spider is a dead one" (I'm a huge animal lover).

Texts while driving.

[Anonymous]

If it's some very specific examples.
Coming over to mine the day before my birthday to stay overnight, teasing and flirting, trying to convince me to have sex with them, then ditching me at midnight to go and see her ex instead.

Going shopping together and on a date (I paid), then telling me we can't hang out anymore because her ex is convinced that I only like spending time with her because I have a perverted interest in their daughter.
She took his side which stung the most.

[JPrez]

Women that toss insults at you in front of other people; questioning your manhood; smoking in front of us; using curse words constantly; making fun of our family or friends; acting like a slut.

[Miristheiss]

Sex work,
stripping,
nude modeling,
cam modeling,
escort/hooker,
being a big clubber and drinker
using drugs
ever cheating
low character

[Avicenna]

Lots of things can

-Her life is a mess of mostly or entirely her own doing
-Personally destructive behavior or behavior that is damaging to others
- Extremist or delusional viewpoints
- unrealistic expectations

[hahahmm]

When she doesn’t act like a lady.
When she doesn’t look like a lady.
When she doesn’t dress like a lady.


It’s normal these days for most not to respect themselves but they expect others to respect them.

[TheorionMage]

When attractive women who find genuine honest males, 'friend zone' "Uncle/Daddy" neuter them...

"sometimes when we touch... the honesty's "TOO MUCH" and I have to close my eyes and hide..."

[DeviloftheValleys]

having a double standard when it comes to women's weight vs. men's height. if you're gonna turn someone down for being too short, you cannot be offended when you get turned down for being too fat.

[OmNomaly]

Poor attitude, lack of respect for others when they are showing respect.
High number of partners. Bigoted women.
Argumentative.

[Brian___1731]

When some crave for attention by saying they have depression and mental problems and later you find out they weren't real

[cth96190]

Nose rings, tattoos, weird hair, screwing scumbag bad boys, miscegenation and... being a Democrat. 🤣

[Anonymous]

Acting as a feminazi, disrespecting me or others, tyring to downplay man and think that she is better than man, and not knowing her place. Basically someone who doesn't cooperate and a pain in the ass almost all the time. I'm not saying woman shouldn't have their own opinion, but some woman take it way too far.

[Finchie40]

If she is selfish and only really cares about herself , flirts with a bunch of other guys , doesn’t make me a priority like I make her , if she treats me like I am a convenience

[winterfox10]

Talking with a shitload of attitude. Look... I get it... you need to have some attitude so people know that they can't push you around. But get good at knowing when to show that attitude.

[I-C3_ME]

When she expects you to pay, not that the man has to pay but that she expects him to.

Like shoving a check in a guys face is just incredibly rude and disrespectful to me

[_no_one_]

When she starts manipulating, playing wicked games and won't stop complaining about stuff even tho she would do the same.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

if she disrespects me. That could be lying or whatever.

[Everyoneisplastic]

When she has no respect of others. You reap what you sow

[007kingifrit]

if she has fallen for hyper idealistic and aggressive left wing politics i don't have any respect for her, women get easily manipulated by emotional appeals and get radicalized fast

[ohshee]

If she has a big mouth and is loud and thinks she is better than anyone else

[MecheD]

Women lose respect from me when they showcase a strong lack of morality.

[Jenom]

Arrogance, when a woman puts down other women and thinks she's better.

[Iron_Man]

When she becomes a party girl and starts becoming too demanding and acting like she can do what she wants to do

[jasco]

When she don't used good facts, selling off her body and before you ask i only watch hentai porn, never like real life porn, and mm when a girl just does something that ticks me off