What is one situation where a man has made you uncomfortable? Either by what he said or what he did?

[CriticalDiscourse]

Allow me to use my most recent example.

It sounds fictional, but its not.

I was on the tram going to work and a man got on. Literally in stereotypical "bad boy" clothes, including a belt made of fake bullets. He was white, for people who will jump to conclusions.

He was laughing loudly and jeering at people on the bus, but then zeroed in on me. I had headphones in, am a petite female and was avoiding eye contact. While I'm not afraid of confrontation in a social sense, I could tell this guy was looking for a fight, not a debate.

He began going off about how he "knew he could hear me," and to "look at him." When I didn't, and continued to not feed his behaviour, he amped it up, yelling: "Oh you're scared of me huh? Oh yeah, you're really scared right now."

And, I was, obviously. This person was a lot bigger than me and clearly had issues, so for my safety, I wanted to avoid escalating.

Where it got really bad is when I got up to get off the tram and he followed me out.

He kept yelling and was clearly upset that I wasn't giving him what he wanted: attention. While I was afraid, I wasn't letting it show on my face. Clearly, this challenged his need for feeling powerful, so he decided to yell: "Oh you're scared of me huh? You should be, because I'll fuck you to death, bitch."

I was luckily able to get away when he got stuck in the crowd getting off the tram. But, for anyone who says men don't "do this shit these days," I'm here to tell you that it still happens. It's not all men, but the fact that not a single person stood up with me speaks a lot about our society.

[Cassie94]

As much as I like it when guys look and stare at by butt and my boobs, I feel immediately uncomfortable whenever a guy grabs my butt or squeezes my boobs - like on nights out at busy bars and clubs. Even though when a guy grabs my butt, I slap him - and when a guy squeezes my boobs, I kick him in the balls my absolute hardest - it still makes me feel uncomfortable whenever these guys touch my butt and my boobs. So yes, you have to be very careful and aware, and be sure to look after yourself! 🙋🏼‍♀️

[Wiredone]

Pretty women like yourself have to be very careful walking by yourself not only at night, but all the time. I recommend that all women carry mace or pepper spray at all times. As soon as you walk to the door to leave, have it in your hand. If you don't have mace, put one key between each finger with the ends pointing out. This way if someone tried to attack you, you punch them in the face with the keys sticking out or gouge their eyes.
To answer your question, I had one guy say that I had a nice ass and he wanted to see it without clothes. I just told him to get the fu** away from me.

[chriscdi]

i had some dude ask me weird questions and if that wasn't weird enough, that mf slid into my dms

[Purple_Rose]

I literally just posted a question asking why old men stare at me for an uncomfortable amount of time. It happens a lot and I hate it so much.

[Anonymous]

I was on a train last night, a man sitting opposite at me started looking at me. I didn't pay much attention to him, I was just watching YouTube on my phone. But then I noticed he was having a full on wank whilst looking at me. I looked at him, quite shocked. He pulled his hands out of his trousers, and got off at the next stop.

[Anonymous]

Why did you put that picture with what sounded like it was supposed to be a serious question?

[1031ent]

This seems like a man bashing post.

[JosyJosy]

PM's in here

[anewme]

Fart