Girls, if the conversation with the new guy hot or not was boring 🥱, what would you do 🤔?

Question

Answer 1

Cynicaldreamer | 445 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Same as I do with anyone that bores me, male or female: I lose interest and move on.
Hot or not, if he's boring, no amount of attraction will keep me glued to him.

I might try to change the subject, or see if there's anything of interest about him- some people seem boring at first glance, but are interesting once you get to know them. However, sometimes there's just no connection there.

And you have to keep that in mind when meeting new people; dating, friendship, coworkers, etc...
You can't force a relationship to happen. If someone thinks you're boring or uninteresting, that's their perspective. You shouldn't take it personally.

NorthShoreCalling

1 mo
Yeah I agree.
scott04sa22

1 mo
@Cynicaldreamer sometimes people don't connect right away it takes time from what I heard. Some people click instantly but some people takes time to click. Lot of people wants that instant clicked. Same thing with the sparks some people get sparks some people don't. What really matters it's the torch litting up or the fire burning hotter 🔥

That is absolutely right you can't force a relationship to happen.
Cynicaldreamer

1 mo
@scott04sa22 Yeap! I've had people like that in my life before. At first glance, they bored me so much!!! But they were nice, or kept making an effort to reach out to me. So I gave them another chance or two. It's like a book- you can't always judge people by how they appear. And sure enough, some people really do surprise you once you get them to open up or relax! Myself included.

But instant clicks rarely, if ever happen. That's why if someone bores me, I might get frustrated. But I usually feel them out for a bit before completely giving up on them.

Answer 2

NorthShoreCalling

Yeah I agree.

Answer 3

scott04sa22

@Cynicaldreamer sometimes people don't connect right away it takes time from what I heard. Some people click instantly but some people takes time to click. Lot of people wants that instant clicked. Same thing with the sparks some people get sparks some people don't. What really matters it's the torch litting up or the fire burning hotter 🔥

That is absolutely right you can't force a relationship to happen.

Answer 4

Cynicaldreamer

@scott04sa22 Yeap! I've had people like that in my life before. At first glance, they bored me so much!!! But they were nice, or kept making an effort to reach out to me. So I gave them another chance or two. It's like a book- you can't always judge people by how they appear. And sure enough, some people really do surprise you once you get them to open up or relax! Myself included.

But instant clicks rarely, if ever happen. That's why if someone bores me, I might get frustrated. But I usually feel them out for a bit before completely giving up on them.

Answer 5

SavySav

Xper 4

Definitely just move on. If it feels like I have to carry the conversation I get too tired and it's not worth it.

Answer 6

thimmslicc

Xper 5

Definitely moving on and keeping my good vibe to myself. They probably don't have the same sense as you.

Answer 7

DizzyDesii | 564 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Spice it up. If he didn't join in, i’d move on

scott04sa22

1 mo
Spice it up? Meaning start talking about sex?
DizzyDesii

1 mo
No just talk about anything remotely interesting

Answer 8

scott04sa22

Spice it up? Meaning start talking about sex?

Answer 9

DizzyDesii

No just talk about anything remotely interesting

Girls, if the conversation with the new guy hot or not was boring 🥱, what would you do 🤔?

Most Helpful Girls

What Girls Said (2)

Related myTakes