Yeah I agree.
@Cynicaldreamer sometimes people don't connect right away it takes time from what I heard. Some people click instantly but some people takes time to click. Lot of people wants that instant clicked. Same thing with the sparks some people get sparks some people don't. What really matters it's the torch litting up or the fire burning hotter 🔥 That is absolutely right you can't force a relationship to happen.
@scott04sa22 Yeap! I've had people like that in my life before. At first glance, they bored me so much!!! But they were nice, or kept making an effort to reach out to me. So I gave them another chance or two. It's like a book- you can't always judge people by how they appear. And sure enough, some people really do surprise you once you get them to open up or relax! Myself included. But instant clicks rarely, if ever happen. That's why if someone bores me, I might get frustrated. But I usually feel them out for a bit before completely giving up on them.
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Spice it up? Meaning start talking about sex?
No just talk about anything remotely interesting