Why are Indian dudes more likely to message women, asking for "bobs and vagene"?

Why are Indian dudes more likely to message women, asking for bobs and vagene?
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  • Hi.. Kas.. I am from India.. Living and seeing this issue daily..
    And I think I can explain it to you In few points.

    1) We never had that great sex revolution like America, where sex was started to be viewed as sport and done for pleasure.. If you are pursuing sex or Masturbating for sexual pleasure.. It is seen as bad thing and you are shunned for doing it.. Sex here is only for making babies and that is why we have such huge population, and when babies are born.. People say "It's a gift from god."

    2) according to parents Genitals are only for peeing.. They don't have any reproductive functions.. That's how parents here behave..

    3) Sex cannot be discussed openly, and with cheap internet, people here find escape in virtual world for discussing Sex..

    There are many such reasons that totally sum up to Indian people discussing and letting their sexual urges out on the internet.

    Now among all these people most people find satisfaction in Porns...
    But some people want a personal connection because it helps they cum..
    So they resort to sexting and nudes..
    And since you already know men are visual..
    So men will ask for NUDES.
    Just because white girls sunbath and wear clothes that show skin..
    Stupid people here think.. White girls don't have any standards..

    Now these stupid people belong to state level education system mostly..
    Education system here is divided into 3
    ISCE, CBSE, State board (different of every state)

    The key to recognize such stupid people is
    " They struggle with speaking English."

    Yes even proper English speaking men will ask for nude but not instantly on first meet.
    And men like me will never ask for nudes..
    Porn and erotica Works for me very well.. And I don't need those..

    If you need to ask anything more regarding this subject or INDIA.
    You are most welcomed to ask..

    And
    NEWS : Uttar Pradesh (A state of India) just introduced a law that if your search porn on any browser.. Cops will send you a message and your ISP a message to take action and back away..
    And porn sites are now banned in India..

    And if you are feeling generous and pity full for people here.. Next time they ask for nudes send them nudes of female porn stars from internet.
    Don't share your own nudes..

    And if you want to have fun than shoot 20-25 dick pics that your received at the Indian men asking for nudes..
    Don't worry about how he will feel.. Every Indian men has be tortured to the edge of not finding sexually pleasure and are sexually frustrated..

    I am safe because. I use TOR +PROXY +VPN to access all the porn I need..

    • www.news18.com/.../...rt-porn-viewers-3430520.html

      Now thanks to America, Hollywood and western influence.. Our generation is very open minded and will discuss sex with their kids..
      And this problem will resolved with time..

    • Wow. Thank you for explaining that. I appreciate you taking the time to explain it for me. I would hate to live there :/ But I'm so glad things are getting better. Everyone deserves to have sexual freedom.

    • Don't thank me.. It is I who should be thankful to you Americans.. Your influence and culture made me realize.. "that I deserve sexual freedom".. Otherwise I would have gone through with arranged marriage lived my whole life blindly like a drone.. You know this is the sole reason why so many Indians have left India and settled in other parts of world.. Go anywhere and any nation in world you will find Indians and Chinese and Korean people.. Same problem is everywhere.. That's not the case with Americans or Europeans.. You guys are happy at your place.. You guys don't settle in India or China or Korea..

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  • If you've been on the Internet for more than a week, you'll probably have figured out a few things:

    • Men in general are horny, and a lot of them are sexually frustrated.
    • A SMALL but very LOUD and BOLD group of guys use the anonymity of the Internet to be complete selfish jerks, because they don't care about anything but getting their way. They don't represent the vast majority of men, but even if it's only 2% or so of all men, when you have a large pool of participants, 2% of the males can still be a big number.
    • India is a country with 600,000,000 males in a pretty repressive culture, which means the percentage of selfish, entitled men is probably closer to 10%, especially dealing with western women.
    • Indian men see western (and especially American) girls being much more sexually open, and a sizable percentage of them view American women as sluts who are only good for sex, and they figure they might as well get some sex (or, as close to that as they can get online, such as nudes) while the getting is good. And they feel entitled to get it quickly and on-demand, so they can go from seemingly sweet to complete assholes in 5 seconds. They aren't looking for a relationship of any kind, just nudes, so they don't care if they're jerks - whatever it takes to convince you, manipulate you, or bully you is fine if it gets then nudes.


    Once you take all this into account, you realize that you need to treat them the same way you'd treat a telemarketer - ignore them completely until they get bored and go away. DO NOT ENGAGE with them.

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  • As an Indian girl, i will tell you this. Porn is not banned here. I watch it often. Sex before marrriage happens very very often. Others just do not get to know about it because sex is a taboo here. Ik girls who have gangbangs. Even if i talk to Indian guys on this therapy site i use to help people, they will try to turn it sexual. But i make it crystal clear before the convo that i do not sext nor do i take sexual problems which have resulted in me getting blocked by many such guys. But yes i have also been asked to send nudes by non Indian guys too.
    I assure you it's not every Indian guys. My school friends (guys i have been really close to) are really decent guys who have never acted filthy.
    The main reason why Western women experience this is because white girls are what they saw in porn growing up. Their brains are taught to think that they're easy and horny girls who will give them what they want. Again these are uneducated classless pervs who think "Sex happens only after marriage here". And also compared to Western girls, Indian women will always come as a 2nd choice to such guys educated or uneducated. I mean i saw an Indian guy here (who seemed decent) describe what he likes in girls and all his turn ons had western beauty standards as in blue eyes blonde hair.
    If you think experiencing this is bad, then you should meet my mom who have always pulled my top down because the outline of my butt cheeks was visible. It's way way worse for girls in rural areas.
    Anyway to me it doesn't matter what a person's nationality is, if he/she asks something sexual, i will block him/her.

    • So are women more likely to be raped in India? How does that work?

    • Well I don't know where India stands in the rape statistics but yes if not rape, they will be subjected to immense catcalling and probably groping if they live in a rural area. Most rapes in rural areas are minor rapes where the girl is always blamed. Also spme pervs turn rape into murder and they don't even get harshly punished here.

    • That's awful. I'm sorry you live in a place like that :/ I hope you're doing okay.

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  • Omg this got me cracking up🤣🤣🤣🤣
    This man is having a conversation all by himself. Gosh
    But to answer your question I suppose it's because we are less likely to have a conversation about sex or sexual anything. Many or much of what we learn is from internet. Which also means that many people don't have the etiquette.

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  • they just know the real way to seduce a lady

    • Damn you are so hilarious 😂🤣😝✌️👌

    • Yeah, lol at least there intentions are clear 😂😂. You can expect what they are aiming for there are lot of people who con on the internet

  • Uh... Because if they messaged men for nudes they wouldn't like any pictures they got back?

    • I meant why are they more likely to message women in general. But that's funny.

    • As I understand it it’s a cultural misunderstanding. They see sex in our tv shows and movies and interpret them to mean that women here are just freely available sex objects.

    • I see. I never understood why they felt that way, but that makes sense. I imagine living in a bubble echo chamber will do that to ya.

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  • 😂😂😂😂

  • Maybe they think the direct approach is better.

    I like to chat a bit before I ask for pics of the "bobs and vegene"

  • Look at the population of India and then you'll see there are quite a lot of them on here and they typically weren't taught some proper morals.

  • Sure.

  • Lmaoooooooooooooooooooooo

  • Or “vigina” lol

  • It's mostly because non-Indians know how to spell.
    One other reason: From regions where there are monkey gods, and where dead grandmothers are said to return as cows you can't expect much civilized attitude.

  • That's kinda funny with all that spelling mistakes feels more like troll post or meme there were some jokes likes bob and vagine 😂😂.


    I would like to ask you a few questions, answer it honestly this is in order to understand things.


    1. How many of Guys, i mean guys in general would send you DMs? Be it guys from any ethnicity?

    2. how many guys would send unsolicited D picks? Be it of any ethnicity.

    3. Can you check in your DMs and see like on an average ratio how many men sent you DMs that are sexually explicit.

    No matter how good there at English.


    4. And also answer me this how would you feel if the same questions were asked by your Ethnic group like say for your self how likely and differently would you have reacted to it?

    5. If an Handsome hunk asked for the same things and if you were around 20 to 26 how would you respond to it like you like the guy.

    {still stranger though, and also from any ethnicity, and if asked with proper conviction}.

    6. to tell you its mostly it's a common thing that men do being varied of there ethnicity but the level of tolerance showed by different groups vary.


    7. In general any man whose thirsty would do it where one assumes that kind of behaviour would be acceptable as in form of sexual freedom.

    8. Its just that done are more persistent than others I know it sucks but it's the truth, it's all about the chance and probability taken in general way.

    9. It's not about disrespect or viewing as objects, but just a general view what the people get to see on telivision people believe it's true and wanna try there luck.

    Ps. i have asked the questions based on curiosity and not to debate but discuss

  • Small dicks make them desperate and go off a script. They can’t be creative in dirty talk. No bde

  • Those are some weird ones... Not every Indian are like that 😂

    • I didn't say every indian does that.

  • Lol I like at the end he makes comment to show you contacted him in the first place, all I can say is he was born at a very young age and came outsideways and can smell noises

  • Because they don’t like American women and they just shit on them but leave their own kind alone

    • If they don't like American women then why are they in my dm's trying to hit on me 🥴

    • Because they want your nude pics. I’m talking about they don’t like you as far as respect goes All American woman

    • Gotcha gotcha. I do remember seeing a bunch of them talking shit about American women being slutty etc. This is all making much more sense to me. Thanks for the insight.

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  • Damn Indian men! They are so fucking smooth!

  • Who are Bob and Vagene? Is Vagene an Italian name? And why does this Indian guy want him?
    The mystery grows deeper...

  • The UN needs to do something about this lol i wonder ic they are from India or pakistan. Because if it was pakistan it would make a lot of sense if they were from there lol

  • First and foremost because of sheer numbers.

    • Are you Indian?

    • @Montano_lady Nope.

  • Has to do with their society of a cast system.

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