This guy at work?

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There is this guy at work. We hit it off pretty well. It started with im off so ill see you when I come back. Then he asked for my number and held my hand. But then he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship we was just friends which I agreed cause originally I just wanted to be friends. Then he ghosted me for a few days. Worked with him last night and he couldn't stop kissing me. He's made comments about how awake I make him feel when we are together. But I just don't know how to read him. Does he want to be more than friends? He just testing the waters? Any insight will be great! Thank you!

Answer 1

Anonymous

Something seems kind of weird to me. He said he wanted to be just friends, then stopped talking to you for a few days, then kissed you at work?

Asker

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Yep thats correct. He lives with his parents. Said he's been taking time for him since his ex girlfriend child she claimed was his for a year wasn't actually his and messed him up emotionally.
Opinion Owner

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Yeah, I don't know he just seems like he can't make up his mind

Answer 2

Asker

Yep thats correct. He lives with his parents. Said he's been taking time for him since his ex girlfriend child she claimed was his for a year wasn't actually his and messed him up emotionally.

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

Yeah, I don't know he just seems like he can't make up his mind

Answer 4

spartan55 | 15.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

He already told you what he wants. You aren't listening.

Asker

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And what makes you think that? Please enlighten me.
spartan55

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"he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship, we was friends."
What aren't you understanding?
Asker

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Maybe the fact that he started kissing me. In my book friends don't kiss. Didn't know that that was so hard to comprehend. I haven't done any advances since day 1. So I am listening but he isn't. But maybe you just read what you want and give advice based off of one sentence. So I guess your not reading.
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spartan55

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Yeah, that must be it. Sure, in YOUR book friends don't kiss, but apparently in his they do. What does you not making advances have to do with anything? Believe me, I've witnessed and experienced your situation backwards and forwards dozens of times.

Answer 5

Asker

And what makes you think that? Please enlighten me.

Answer 6

spartan55

"he told me he wasn't looking for a relationship, we was friends."
What aren't you understanding?

Answer 7

Asker

Maybe the fact that he started kissing me. In my book friends don't kiss. Didn't know that that was so hard to comprehend. I haven't done any advances since day 1. So I am listening but he isn't. But maybe you just read what you want and give advice based off of one sentence. So I guess your not reading.

Answer 8

spartan55

Yeah, that must be it. Sure, in YOUR book friends don't kiss, but apparently in his they do. What does you not making advances have to do with anything? Believe me, I've witnessed and experienced your situation backwards and forwards dozens of times.

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