If a guy says he likes me, how do I know if it’s as a friend or more than a friend?

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Answer 1

Kodvik | 62 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 5

Easier way to know is to just ask...
But if you want to use "signs" (which almost no men uses)... Try to understand the type of relationship you already have, if you are friends for a long time... It can be either so just ask... If it's a "new" relationship... See if he flirts, or if he just do friendship things...

Juicyred921

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We’ve been friends for over 6 months. We see each other pretty much everyday. Never go a day without talking. he’s been kinda staying over a lot. We spend our nights cuddling on the couch and watching tv till we go to bed. We do have sex. It’s almost like we’re already in a relationship. But we dont kiss, we never talked about being exclusive, he tells me he’s not ready for a relationship.
forever-or-never

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Juicy, you answered your own question with this comment. Youve been intimate with him so at this point you have an honest conversation with him
Kodvik

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The problem still stand, he might be saying that he likes you in the relation to you have now, or just informing you that he is starting to like you more and want something more...
By the nature of your relationship, I would say it's the second one... Unless he made it clear in the near past that he doesn't want more
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Juicyred921

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@forever-or-never I asked him if he has feelings for me but he refuses to answer

Answer 2

Juicyred921

We’ve been friends for over 6 months. We see each other pretty much everyday. Never go a day without talking. he’s been kinda staying over a lot. We spend our nights cuddling on the couch and watching tv till we go to bed. We do have sex. It’s almost like we’re already in a relationship. But we dont kiss, we never talked about being exclusive, he tells me he’s not ready for a relationship.

Answer 3

forever-or-never

Juicy, you answered your own question with this comment. Youve been intimate with him so at this point you have an honest conversation with him

Answer 4

Kodvik

The problem still stand, he might be saying that he likes you in the relation to you have now, or just informing you that he is starting to like you more and want something more...
By the nature of your relationship, I would say it's the second one... Unless he made it clear in the near past that he doesn't want more

Answer 5

Juicyred921

@forever-or-never I asked him if he has feelings for me but he refuses to answer

Answer 6

bowenw | 222 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Usually guys don't say they like someone unless it's more than as a friend. If a guy says that ask him what exactly he means by that, or say, "Tell me more."

Answer 7

Browneye57 | 3.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

A guy wouldn't bother talking to you if he wasn't interested. Seriously.
And you can't really know anything till you get to know him. This is why we DATE.

Answer 8

Massageman | 922 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

You already ARE "more" than a friend if you are in the sack.

Answer 9

Anonymous

Really at 36 you asking this question?

Where you been with this before?

Juicyred921

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It’s complicated
Opinion Owner

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It usually means, ' I don't know what I'm doing and don't even want to find out' and putting up smart face expression.
Juicyred921

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It’s complicated. We kinda live together. We act like a couple. So it gets confusing. I constantly have to remind myself that we’re just friends.
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Opinion Owner

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Nothing complicated, you use him when you need him, but when he wants bedroom fun you remember, that you are just friends...
Juicyred921

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I don’t use him. I’m in love with him. I take care of him. I cook for him. I’m there for him and help him in any way I can.

Answer 10

Juicyred921

It’s complicated

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

It usually means, ' I don't know what I'm doing and don't even want to find out' and putting up smart face expression.

Answer 12

Juicyred921

It’s complicated. We kinda live together. We act like a couple. So it gets confusing. I constantly have to remind myself that we’re just friends.

Answer 13

Opinion Owner

Nothing complicated, you use him when you need him, but when he wants bedroom fun you remember, that you are just friends...

Answer 14

Juicyred921

I don’t use him. I’m in love with him. I take care of him. I cook for him. I’m there for him and help him in any way I can.

Answer 15

rebeliouse

Xper 5

@Juicyred921
flirt with him and become touchy feely

Juicyred921

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We flirt.. but what do you mean by touchy feely?
rebeliouse

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so say your sat together and he says something funny put your hand on his knee as you laugh at with him and lean in a little or say he says something jokey flirty then punch his shoulder gently like when he takes mick out of you or say your walking close and he says something flirty then hip bump him or get him to high five you then low five you then side five you. or if he is in front of you and dont know your there dig your fingers in his hips to make him jump if safe to do so. just subtle touches playful etc its sign of attraction and affection see how he reacts if he dos back to you then your in
Juicyred921

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We do that all the time

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Juicyred921

We flirt.. but what do you mean by touchy feely?

Answer 17

rebeliouse

so say your sat together and he says something funny put your hand on his knee as you laugh at with him and lean in a little or say he says something jokey flirty then punch his shoulder gently like when he takes mick out of you or say your walking close and he says something flirty then hip bump him or get him to high five you then low five you then side five you. or if he is in front of you and dont know your there dig your fingers in his hips to make him jump if safe to do so. just subtle touches playful etc its sign of attraction and affection see how he reacts if he dos back to you then your in

Answer 18

Juicyred921

We do that all the time

Answer 19

Danny_dan92 | 2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Read between the lines of his other actions

Juicyred921

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Acts like a boyfriend but doesn’t want a relationship 🤔
Danny_dan92

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He wants your pussy
Juicyred921

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Doubt it.. we only have sex maybe once a week if that
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Danny_dan92

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Uhh yeah... exactly my point.
Juicyred921

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But sleeps over every night
Danny_dan92

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Ok, and?
Danny_dan92

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That comes with him putting his fuck stick inside you. Duh
Danny_dan92

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You’re 36 years old.

I expect a female that is 15+ years younger than you to have the logic you do... no offense. But it’s so obvious
Juicyred921

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We hang out everyday.. he basically lives with me.. we do other things together.. we took a trip to New York.. we go fishing.. we’re planning a trip to Florida soon
Danny_dan92

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You’re FWB’s at the end of the day
Juicyred921

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So if we’re just friends with benefits.. he probably doesn’t like me more than a friend
Danny_dan92

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FWB’s is more than a friend.

But less than a relationship.

Makes sense?
Juicyred921

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friends with benefits just sounds like a person you use for sex. Someone you don’t care about.
Danny_dan92

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You said he has no intentions of being with you right? Like being your boyfriend?
Juicyred921

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He doesn’t want a girlfriend right now. He’s trying to get his life together

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Juicyred921

Acts like a boyfriend but doesn’t want a relationship 🤔

Answer 21

Danny_dan92

He wants your pussy

Answer 22

Juicyred921

Doubt it.. we only have sex maybe once a week if that

Answer 23

Danny_dan92

Uhh yeah... exactly my point.

Answer 24

Juicyred921

But sleeps over every night

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Danny_dan92

Ok, and?

Answer 26

Danny_dan92

That comes with him putting his fuck stick inside you. Duh

Answer 27

Danny_dan92

You’re 36 years old.

I expect a female that is 15+ years younger than you to have the logic you do... no offense. But it’s so obvious

Answer 28

Juicyred921

We hang out everyday.. he basically lives with me.. we do other things together.. we took a trip to New York.. we go fishing.. we’re planning a trip to Florida soon