True or false: if a guy is not messaging you, he is not thinking about you?

[Realistic07]

You do realize we have our own lives, and responsibility’s just as much as you do right?


Like odds are that sure he may be thinking of you thought the day, he may even wish he could text you, but responsibility, and commitments always comes first not texting.


So try not to stress about it too much if you send him a text give him more than enough time to message you back. All that being said if this is a real issue where it’s affecting your relationship in a real way not a way that you can invent, but an actual feasible realistic way. Then and only then have a conversation with him let him know how you feel and be ready to listen to what he says and how he feels as well.


At that point y’all should be all good in reality, but for now I really don’t see any reason for that nor do I see any reason for you to worry about it.

[andreasderjuengere]

I have other things to do as well. True: I'm not permanently thinking of my partner, because my attention is caught with different things, too.
To constantly babble via a textphone would prevent me from achieving my other goals.

[Anon621]

I think this is a common problem people miatake with someone else not caring about them. It depends on what you mean by not messaging. If a guy is ghosting you but he cares then he will tell you exactly where he was and apologize for ghosting you since something came up. Otherwise if a guy hasn't messaged you for a day for some reason hopefully he would communicate with you what the reason is. There are some people who fall in love with people that want to join the military, some people might be on vacation when you try to text them, and other times people could potentially be at a place such as a summer camp or a church youth group where phones are normally not allowed to focus on what is going on. I would say from personal experience if I didn't message a girl I always tried to inform her what was going on even if it was later than I intended and if it conflicted with my family then I would try to invite her over to join the party unless of course my family wanted privacy which I can respect and I would apologize for not informing her earlier.

[LZPanzer]

Guys value loyalty a lot, have some patience. If the wait gets too long for you try giving him a prompt he can easily respond to. The usual "what's up" is not easy to respond to. Avoid topics that he does everyday like work or food, as these will likely just get the response of "it's fine".

Try to focus on a topic he's passionate about, or something new about an interest he likes.
Example: he owns a game console, Ask "What do you think about ______ game that comes out next month.

[NamerOfStars]

Not necessarily. He could be busy, or not want to bug you. Men, as a rule, aren't talkers as much as women are; we usually don't say anything unless we have something to say, and often don't talk just to be talking.

[TremorJay]

Yeah it's 100% false. Plenty of times I have thought to myself, "If she wants to talk, she'll text me."

[shade_19]

I see the difference in thoughts of the genders
Guys know better bout themselves ok?
It's like asking a guy how mensuration cramp feels
If a girl thinks bout a guy does she immediately message him? Nah. They'll wait for the guy to message first that end up to not msging for days if in case the guy is also expecting the same thing from the girl

[Anonymous]

False. A guy can think about you and not message you. He can also not think about you and not message you.

You cannot reason out what he's thinking from whether or not he messages you.

[luckyinloveandlife]

My husband works very hard, he’s very busy trying to provide for us. The messages he does send to me I find extremely sweet and attractive because I know he probably used what very little down time he had to let me know he loves me.

[Bhavin2184]

May be true, may be false..
Can't give extact person

[Finchie40]

I guess it depends if he is busy or not and how long it takes him to message you , so my answer is both

[rapfan107]

False a lot times they got many things going on and they have prioritize!! That doesn't mean they're not thinking about the girl

[K-I-S-S]

I think about some people all the time, but don't message them because i'm pretty sure they have better things to do.

[CriticalDiscourse]

People put too much emotional emphasis on something so mindless.

[hello_kitty_man]

If a guy is not messaging you all the time could be that he is working and can't reply back in a timely fashion.

[usedaname]

Do you message people when you have nothing to say?

[JEndigoBleue]

If he his energy doesn't reciprocate your energy, walk away. Stop calling. Stop texting.

[spartan55]

There are many that believe this true.

[lloutte]

Sometimes the guy is a bit preoccupied. Or like he's not in the mood.

[Alexa703]

Can be both maybe trying show he’s to desperate.

[msc545]

He might be busy with other things.

[Anonymous]

Wow the split on the poll.
Girls got no clue.

[Slim57]

False he could be working...

[NathanDavis]

he can be busy

[Wise4myage]

Not true.

[Shihab-91]

sorry because i have a life

[Jamie05rhs]

FALSE.

[Joker_]

False in some cases, True in other cases