My fiancé spanked me. Abuse or problem solver? (Page 2)

Question

So he is 32 and I'm 26. I don't consider myself the most mature person in the world because I kept my soul young and sometimes I do risky things.  Well yesterday I I went out with my friends and on the way back I crashed my car into a traffic light. I was a little intoxicated as well. I was too shocked and scared to drive again so I called him. He was crazy mad and when we got home we fought. He was yelling at me that something could've happend to me or others because of my stupid actions. I was drunk so I couldn't reason with him, especially because of his raised voice. I smashed a crystal vase of his mom throwing into his direction. He said:"Ok, that does it. I'm sorry but you need this."He dragged me to the sofa and he put me over his knee. I thought he was joking but then my skirt was flipped up and he spanked the crap out of me. He kept on hitting me and asking me why am I so reckless, do I have a death wish.. etc. I went from cursing him to telling him I was sorry and I'd never do it again. I really meant that. Now that I am sober I realise I was so wrong but in the same time his actions towards me worried me. I don't want to get married with a violent man.

Anonymous · Answer

Disciplinary spanking is not the same as abuse. An actual abuse victim might find your comparison offensive.

Diversity_Hire · Answer

I'm not even going to pretend you didn't fucking deserve it. You acted like a reckless child, and in turn you were treated like one.

Anonymous · Answer

You turned it violent when you threw the vase.

Waldoe · Answer

sounds like he will be Lucky if he isn't married to a drunk, do him a favor, leave...

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I see no problem here except with your dumbass driving drunk

Anonymous · Answer

Don’t listen to the first two guys replies. You made a mistake & he shouldn’t do that.  Dump him

Anonymous · Answer

You are lucky to have a strong man to slap you around. He should have started years ago

stepyo99 · Answer

Your fiance sounds pretty based.

TheFlak38 · Answer

"I do risky things" you're a slut. Just say it.

Anonymous · Answer

People, please stop feeding the troll.

scooogy · Answer

I wouldn't either. You're not his daughter.

michael1469 · Answer

Sounds like a good time was had by all...

Anonymous · Answer

U threw a fuckin vase at him who’s violent?

Lone_wolf122 · Answer

Lol you made my day

swwetsparkle · Answer

leave. NOW

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