Why did he text me if he wasn’t interested?

Question

I met up with this guy who drove to me for 1 hour and we spent a date in a car.

He complimented my looks a lot, called me hot af and we made out. It almost lead to sex. Our conversation was also full of laugh as we both like humour. He told me he will text me after and he did. We spoke for almost a week everyday but the texts were dry, like nothing special with 1 hour delay. I let him know we had fun and we joked around some more then he ghosted me. I reached out today after a month when I accidentally sent him something but deleted it before he saw it and apologised about it. He’s read it within 10 mins but just ignored me.

I know people ghost you if they don’t like you but why did he reach out to me after a date, why didn’t he just not text me. It would make more sense. Is it to make me think that I am not being ghosted?

Why did he text me if he wasn’t interested?

He felt bad about ghosting you so he texted you for a little bit.

He has a girlfriend or found someone he likes more

He wasn’t sure yet about you but then made his mind that he doesn’t want anything with you.

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Answer 1

the007datingcoach

Xper 1

Personally to me he sounds like a fuckboy and because he didn't get with you "properly" on a first date he got all butt hurt and decided to ghost you.

He either has a girlfriend or has found some other girl. Either way it's his loss.

Lucky for you that you didn't have sex with him and then he decides ghost you as you would of felt worse.

Find another a guy who is better for you and who deserves you. More importantly "Relax, have fun & hookup when you are both ready"...

Keep on smiling 😊👍🏻

Answer 2

catch222

Xper 2

He has a low attention span. You are looking at someone who simply wanted that interaction to fuck and nothing more. He is not looking for a relationship which you might be if you have expectations of lengthy conversations and enjoyed his company. regardless there is nothing to that situation. Let him go

Answer 3

Flower7 | 344 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

He was probably interested during the date, especially the "almost sex" part. But he most likely felt disappointed afterwards, since things went back to normal between the two of you and the passion had died down.