Are men really this way? He tried to make me sound stupid when I have proof of things? (Page 2)

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There was this guy. We went on one date. We never spoke again. The first date was just fine. The guy told me he felt chemistry with me the time he came back. He drunk added me back on a form of social media. We thought about re-doing our first date. That has never happened. Instead, we just talked about it. I ended up being very confused with this guy. He randomly brought up a threesome he had going on. I thought “Huh? Yet this guy was talking about redoing a date with me.” For a while, it was like that. Instead, we started hooking up. It just got weird. I eventually stopped things because we weren’t going anywhere. Along with him moving because he lost his job. I basically told him how I’m confused.  He came at me so strong. Told me he was TALKING to other people, yet after his threesome he had. WE WERE STILL TALKING ABOUT OUR DATE. You’re probably asking me “Why did you hookup? Why didn’t you leave?” Lowkey stupidity and I was so confused…  Are men really this way? 😵‍💫 Why TRY and take somebody on a date if he’s screwing with other girls? I called him out, saying that’s it’s a red flag. No girl that is a bit interested would want to hear that. They’d consider that a red flag, am I wrong? The threesome happened in June, yet beginning of July. He was talking a re-do, and he acts like I don’t know what I’m talking about.

spartan55 · Answer

The red flags were everywhere and of course you ignored them.

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

It seems like women go after players instead of nice guys so that's what happens with a guy that doesn't want a relationship.

rcljr · Answer

Sounds like he just wanted you for a side piece, OR he has mental issues.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Sis, he's playing with you. Doesn't want to be serious or responsible. He's for the streets

Hxxmx · Answer

It is so obvious he is playing you and trying so hard to avoid responsibility.

magiusX26 · Answer

you let yourself get played by a player. sorry but it is what it is. learn from it and move on.

Floppy2112 · Answer

Yes, all men are exactly this way. It's best not to date men. Stick with women.

Matt3 · Answer

We like to have sex more than to have relationship or love He wants to leave you so let him do it

TheGreatAwan · Answer

He is clearly a Chad so of course you will sleep with him again and never give the nice guy a chance. You are obsessed with him so clearly you crave his alpha seed.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You ended up as a friends with benefits, so why would he care what you think.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

If you'r'e sounding stupid, you probably are That's how i look at trumplicans. as they tend to be

Anonymous · Answer

Just because one guy acted worse than Homer Simpson doesn't mean men are like him.

Slim57 · Answer

Only the men you women actually wanna date not the ones you look right past

Alyssa11 · Answer

He's for the streets...

loves2learn · Answer

Time to be done with him. Buh-bye.

NightHawk99 · Answer

No we aren't. Thirsty simps are.

Anonymous · Answer

Men in general, no, this guy, yes.

OddBeMe · Answer

Why’d you fuck him then?

StunningANDbrave · Answer

Hahahah you're stupid and got played. Next.

Iron_Man · Answer

I can’t believe you did That ugh what did you do

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