Is it wrong for my boyfriend to keep sex tapes of his ex?

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I have explained to him multiple times that him keeping the sex tapes and dirty pics of his ex makes me uncomfortable, especially considering they still have a relationship and talk to each other. I have no problem with him remaining friends with her, not even a problem with him keeping the old pics and videos he has from when they were dating. But the sex tapes is totally different for me.
I asked him to delete them from his phone, which he did, but then I discovered that he had it all backed up on his computer. And after erasing it from his computer, several weeks later he has re-downloaded the tape to his phone. He’s claimed that he has no reason to have them and doesn’t even look at them, yet he went to the trouble of re-downloading the tape to his phone.
I’m at a loss for what to do. Am I in the wrong?
Is it wrong for my boyfriend to keep sex tapes of his ex?
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