but why non of them are really stay?
Paint me a picture here, how long do you date them before it becomes sexual? Or do you not have sex and they leave her ghost you?@KrakenAttackin here’s a prime example of the dating scene younger generation.
@Justneedtokno Yes, I totally get it. Why do you think men are like this? It's because they have been conditioned by women.In your 20's you women have almost all of the dating power (at least 80%). If you don't like the dating scene you need to work with other women to change it. I promise you, men will follow your changes. Women hold the keys to dating and men hold the keys to marriage.
@KrakenAttackin we don’t condition mean to sit there and just have sex with us and leave. Nobody wants that at least we don’t. I think both genders should be held accountable. Man and women. Men for always saying I just don’t wanna relationship right now. Women who try to hold on and change the guy so they can have a relationship with them
@Justneedtokno "We don't condition men to sit there and just have sex with us and leave". YES, you absolutely do. This is how Chad Thundercock gets his 1000 body count. With 80% of women chasing probably 10% of the guys, there is no reason for this top 10% to commit. let's not forget that a portion of this top 10 or men is married, in a committed relationship, gay, asexual, whatever; and is not available, leaving a smaller percentage (5% - 6%) for women to chase. Women will have sex with a Chad very, very, quickly, as in an hour or two after meeting him during "Girls Night Out" or while "clubbing". Chad's won't tolerate a girl making him wait for sex and the girls know it. Why do girls have sex with a Chad so fast? 1) Because these women are super-turned on by Chad, and 2) because they throw all they have in an effort to "keep him", although this is a losing strategy. Other "non-Chad" men (the 80%- 90%) see this behaviour and it goes against everything they have been told is gospel about attracting a woman (be a nice guy, buy her flowers, show emotions, give her attention, be ambitious, be funny) but then they watch Chad come stumbling out of the bathroom stall at the Club after having just banged the girl of Mr. Nice Guy's dreams. When men see and hear about experiences like this enough times it slowly contradicts the decades of propaganda men are fed about women from birth. Now, perhaps you are not banging Chad in the bathroom stall, but enough of your female cohort are to make a fundamental change in the way many men view women. Put another way, if a man knows a woman who is attractive, pleasant, but a party girl who has had sex with a lot of men, he will not invest in her beyond just wanting to have sex --- and this is not unreasonable of him. How does he know she is a party girl? Easy, just cruise her IG, Facebook, SC, TikTot, etc posts and she will post all of her sexcapades.
The bottom line is women have severely damaged their own brand. Whether or not that includes you doesn't matter, as you came off the same assembly line. If you want men to change you will first have to get women to change. Easy breesy.
@KrakenAttackin Who is this character you keep making up. And like you said women are chasing me and now in this topsy-turvy world men don’t want to go and seek the women like you said before you don’t like modern women but you want to be asked out but it takes away your manhood it’s hard to please you guys. Trust me I don’t come off of the simile line I was made and created by my mom and dad and God. so I don’t look like act like or think like others. You mean men have to change their ways to. Guys these days want to hit and quit we can’t make you stay. Or you sit there and call it a trap
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