I’ve been staying with my boyfriend for a few weeks, but now he’s going away on a business trip for a week. He told me he would like me to stay at his house while he’s gone. We don’t live together. He’s also quite jealous and throws a fit if I ever talk to another guy. He’s citing avoiding burglary as the reason he wants me to stay, but this is a very low crime area. I feel he somehow wants to feel he’s in control, fearing I would cheat on him or whatever (which I never have and never will). Is the reason really fear of non existent burglars or is it a way to feel in control of me?