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Cuz i dont trust those succubus's, 7 years ago was my last actual girlfriend when I was 21, I've had 4, they've all lied to me, treated me like shit, made it seem like it was my fault, all because there were times where I couldn't hangout with them since I've had work, i understand they also wanted attention, but they also need to understand that we got bills to pay, the phone I bought her wasn't free, bunch of good digging whores, too think I treated them like a proper gentleman, I was a damn fool for ever doing that.
First off , it seems like you have a lot to unpack mentally and I recommend getting that anger off your chest with a counselor. That’s not an insult or anything, it’s honest advice.
Second, we shouldn’t pay for anything. I had a couple of girlfriends and I wasn’t paying their bills or buying them lavish gifts over hundreds of dollars. They were wrong for that but you’re responsible for your money, that’s just a life lesson at this point.
Third, you’re not wrong for being responsible and respectful, if they didn’t appreciate it then just walk away. Simple. That’s the difference between girls and women, the difference is maturity.
I've only bought her the phone, nothing else after that, only good every once in a while, im a beaner wedding believe in counselors haha, I just dont trust women at this point, now its just a quick tap and go about my day
Thanks bro! I don't have trouble with women per se I'm just not confident with myself that I'm that attractive or desirable. I just bury myself in other things often times.
We men need to help each other get strong and move forward in our lives, confidence takes time.
Some people are attractive and some aren't.
I knew guys who had shit personalities, but women just flocked to them because they were hot guys. If you're just an average looking guy, you better have confidence, intelligence and a good sense of humor or an 8 inch dick.
Otherwise all the self reflection in the world ain't gonna help much.
I'm not sure whether what I'm saying is due to a lack of experience approaching women, but I'm afraid that whatever I say, like "hey, you look beautiful" or even "hello," would be perceived as harassment. Perhaps it's due to the media, or perhaps it's a combination of anxiety and a lack of self-confidence, but I'm not sure.
I'm not a "incel" (involuntary celibacy). Because I actually think I'm pretty attractive, and what I said about harassment is because I'm now in a 1st world country, and from what I've heard, women in, for example, America are more sensitive than women in my home country, and even though I was nervous, I was still able to get a girl compared to my current situation as stated above.
But for the time being, I'm just focusing on my schoolwork and honing my artistic skills. So, buddy, I've got to push those gals to the side.
OP, you realize how weak and shameless you come off according to the pretentious, antagonistic phrasing of your "question." Well of course you do. Troll-grammar!
My answer is, you deserve no answer, other that maybe your should focus more on your own insecurities, of that which your projection wreaks of.
Huh? I’m referring to those who call themselves incels because it is silly. It’s a ridiculous identity that blames women for everything without any form of consideration of other variables for the difficulties they’re facing.
I think some of them have legit issues while others are being immature with their problems.
If you read any of the other answers, I’m actually trying to have a dialogue with my fellow men and help them
OK then, my apologies if I mistook the point of your post. People can call me an incel (since just turned 36 white male, i imagine what they mean) but I bet they won't say them words out in front of me. I look 25, and in shape of the youth. The dating pool is just shit for a decent woman...
SO.. i guess we sort of agree. Sorry again for the mistake.
It’s all good brother, no harm done. I understand why you felt the way you did, that’s why I never took it personally. I’m here if you need to talk
Heh, i'll talk to pretty much anybody that keeps it respectful. I don't need no therapy though if that's what you're saying lol, thanks for the offer but I think I've had enough head-shrinking for one 5 lifetimes.
I never dated before I am badly shy and have fear that I wouldn't be good enough for most women.
I understand your feelings of nervousness because we all have been there, including myself. It’s possible to get over them
I been trying to break my shyness but sometimes it always haunt me in the worst way possible.
I never struggled with women. Its always been a struggle to find the good ones. But i have my good one now. Just 99% of women available are sluts or feminists or fat or career focused. So its just a numbers game. Bang 100 girls to find that 1% lol. But its best to scoop an 18 year old than to even bother with older women. Girls go downhill fast as fuck. Thats how i finally got a good girl who hadn't slept around.
It’s easy Tiktok!
However any nation weak beta men touch down it turns into shit.
I live in Thailand I used to date a normal good looking girl everywhere sometimes I had 4/5 girls to choose which one I wanna meet.
Until all the out of shape loser foreigners came here and turn this place in a pain the ass dating scene.
And I don’t busy my ass learning and my sense of fashion, and life and body.
To date some fat lazy girl.
Never tried... Alway felt too ugly and under confident... And the few times iv tried to flirt with girls online has result in rejection every time. Which makes me never even wanna try with a girl in real life. If I'm ugly and have shitty social skills what's the point?
No girls would want me
Show me a woman who doesn't care about money in a relationship and I'll show you a unicorn mounted on a t-rex shooting a machine gun. And when were done, we will have both shown each other something that doesn't exist.
you're right all girls care about money whether they admit it or not. That being said as a wealthy man, i look for a healthy attitude about money not uncaring attitude. Uncaring might be welcome when you are first dating but it will bite you in the ass just as hard. I also expect to have to teach a woman. When your girl wants something for $100 and you're a broke fuck making $10 hr just say how bad do you want it? This item is me spending 10 hours away from you busting my ass. Alternatively this is a $20 version. How about that? And see what she says. Once you get her thinking this way, and assuming she values your time, she will stop asking for so much stuff.