Confusing friends with benefits situation, please help?

Elf1981
Hi, I've tried reading articles about my dilemma but I cannot seem to find any answers.
I'm in a friends with benefits relationship, we didn't know each other before, we met online.
Neither wanted a relationship beyond sex.
I'm starting to like him but I don't want to tell him because he was adamant from the start he wasn't a relationship person.
But the thing is, he spends the night here, then spends the morning here having coffee. He holds my hand while talking to me, he strokes my hair while cuddling me, he kisses my forehead while also cuddling. In my knowledge, this doesn't happen in a friends with benefits situation.
Is he just "playing the part" or could there be something genuine here?
Please help, thankyou
Confusing friends with benefits situation, please help?
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