You could just literally be an introvert. It wouldn't make you creepy, salty or bitter. You could also be painfully shy. You could just hate drama.You could just be having a bad day.
That's where the problem liesI'm very low key & keep to myself but even then many gals seem to be either afraid, disgusted, by my presenceSo I tend to fall for the "bait" & from there we have our petty verbal squabbles
Then don't. You said you keep to yourself so just stick with that philosophy and ignore them
Out of curiosityWhy would a gal provoke a guy she finds unattractive? Especially if there's many unattractive guys around the same block/classroomWhy would she choose that particular male?
No idea. That's not my style. I dont try to start fights with anyone. She could just be a jerk
Do unattractive guys make females feel at unease? I've noticed that I "attract" many females in the most negative ways Many have actually fled from seeing me & many more feel "scared" but also disgusted
On their own, no. When alone? Maybe. It isn't a fair thing, but more of a primal thing overall. Doesn't even have to be a guy. If it looks unattractive, people are going to avoid it for one reason or another.
So if most females feel disgusted, angry, hateful when around me more than every other guy around usThen is that partial evidence that I might be more unattractive than the typical male?
Not sure about typical males, but to them, they might not be attracted to you. Beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. They could think you look like a hobbit while someone else thinks you look like a Greek God.
The majority of females do feel unattracted towards me & many aren't afraid to show it by wanting to start drama with me It's very odd because my presence alone creates this "snowball ripple" where just my presence grabs everybody's attention & from there the petty drama unfolds 4 different neighborhoods where 9/10 of the females there had some form of hostility towards me The other young guys never grabbed their attention like I did
Then all I can recommend is keeping to yourself and not letting them get to you
In all honestlyIf I'm solely targeted by most females for petty drama but the other males aren't targetedThen I must look very weak in the eyes of most gals
I doubt it's that bad. Just bad girls you are around
I've had therapists, female neighbors, who would treat me like this I just don't get the "WHY" Every dude around me doesn't get targeted except me for their petty shit
Me either. This world sucks at times
In a way it's true that attractive & overconfident guys can get away with a lot more In my case if I'm shy & reserved then I'm just seen as weak because I'm also unattractive
Believe it or not, in high school I had a bully myself for a very short time. I was super not confident in myself (I'm still not and also think I'm trash in almost every way). They thought I'd be an easy fight just because I was sort of shy and reserved. So for a week they made my life hell on the way home from school.One bus fight later, they never messed with me again. Not saying to go punch a bunch of rude girls no matter how good it might feel. Just saying, once they see you are not the one to mess with , they will stop.
At least somebody understands
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