Who did this guy want me or my friend?

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He came over to our table and he said hi girls can I get you all a drink. There was four of us. My friend said aww thanks who do you really want to buy for. He started between my friend and me who didn’t speak to him and kept looking at both of us. Then my friend went it’s her (meaning me) isn’t it? And he went yeah sure and then took my number.

He then left and never paid for the drink he ordered for us and my friends said he left not long after that maybe 10 mins after. He never texted me. And a notification from another girl had came up on his phone.

When he came over to talk to us he stood next to my friend too.

Did he not text and leave cos he wanted my friend not me?

But if it was that why didn’t he just talk to her? Why stare between her and me?

He wanted her

It’s something else

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Answer 1

AncientWisdom | 65 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Sounds like he was checking it out.
I know I used to dance a lot at clubs , I would see a woman I wanted to dance with sitting at a table with her girlfriends. So I would go over and say " would one of you ladies like to dance? One will usually always. so you dance with her , and if you dance well then the other girls will want to dance as well , and you will get to the one you want , then you work your magic with her , and bam your in.
The reason I take this approach is simple. If you got to that table and ask that girl to dance specifically there is a good chance she will turn you down without her even trying to know you. When that happens every woman at that table is going to send you packing , as they usually are going to follow their girlfriends example , because they don't want to look less then her. If you do it how I said above you will usually get the one you want to get.

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LZPanzer | 123 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

Depends on what role he was. If he was the wingman his aim was to break up your group so the lead could go after his target.

If he was solo your friend Lilly blocked who he was after.

If he was a Fukboy he didn't care who he got.

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Asker

3 mo
He was solo what do you mean blocked who he was after?
Asker

3 mo
He also had a notification come up from a girl so probably fuck not too
LZPanzer

3 mo
I think he was a Fukboy.

Solo means he was flying solo and had no support.

Block meaning cockblocked but I mean that with out the negative connotation, as it's hard to say what his goal was.
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Asker

3 mo
To me he wanted her since he stood next to her
But then why stare at me just as much
And by this point had laughed about saying no to my other two friends so why not just say no to me if she was his aim? We were all laughing about rejection at this point
But the fact he stood next to her then didn’t text
But a girl messaged him as I entered my phone number so who knows
Asker

3 mo
He only said yeah to me tho cos my friend who thinks everyone wants me was like aw it’s her again isn’t it and he had a good look at us and went yeah it is then took my number
LZPanzer

3 mo
I think he was a Fukboy because solos don't usually go after a large group.
He wasn't a wing man because there wasn't a follow-up from another guy shortly after him

That just leaves fukboy.
LZPanzer

3 mo
If he was a solo then your friend chased away a good catch as it takes a lot of confidence for a solo to go after a group of 4.
Asker

3 mo
So he did just want my friend then cos he got my number?
LZPanzer

3 mo
Only if he was solo, which I doubt. He probably thinks the number is fake.
Asker

3 mo
He was solo he came over alone but then never settled for either one of us which is weird to me

It was my real number but I was never eve going to reply

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Asker

He was solo what do you mean blocked who he was after?

Answer 4

Asker

He also had a notification come up from a girl so probably fuck not too

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LZPanzer

I think he was a Fukboy.

Solo means he was flying solo and had no support.

Block meaning cockblocked but I mean that with out the negative connotation, as it's hard to say what his goal was.

Answer 6

Asker

To me he wanted her since he stood next to her
But then why stare at me just as much
And by this point had laughed about saying no to my other two friends so why not just say no to me if she was his aim? We were all laughing about rejection at this point
But the fact he stood next to her then didn’t text
But a girl messaged him as I entered my phone number so who knows

Answer 7

Asker

He only said yeah to me tho cos my friend who thinks everyone wants me was like aw it’s her again isn’t it and he had a good look at us and went yeah it is then took my number

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LZPanzer

I think he was a Fukboy because solos don't usually go after a large group.
He wasn't a wing man because there wasn't a follow-up from another guy shortly after him

That just leaves fukboy.

Answer 9

LZPanzer

If he was a solo then your friend chased away a good catch as it takes a lot of confidence for a solo to go after a group of 4.

Answer 10

Asker

So he did just want my friend then cos he got my number?

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LZPanzer

Only if he was solo, which I doubt. He probably thinks the number is fake.

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Asker

He was solo he came over alone but then never settled for either one of us which is weird to me

It was my real number but I was never eve going to reply

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Hangry06 | 343 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

He wanted her. He probably didn't want to make the situation awkward by rejecting you in front of your friends

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spartan55 | 21.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

So he sent a drink to the table and didn't pay for it? Why bother with a guy like that?

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Ratpack60

Xper 4

If he didn’t pay for the drinks you don’t need him.

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Anonymous

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