Do you agree that older guys are sexier?

[lexysax]

I just find them so attractive and I don't know why.

[bean2k21]

I can't tell you how many times I've seen a young couple out in public, and looked twice at a really beautiful young lady. Then thought to myself, gee I wish I were that age again.

Then I look at her boyfriend, and I think, god he looks like a total piece of shit. Then, I feel really bad for her.

But, what can you do? Creep on youngers all the time so they get treated well?

Just learn to love older guy stuff, I guess. It's been a few years since I've been with a younger. She was so mistreated and I miss her so much.

[zeitgeist057]

I'm not attracted personally, but I think older and younger guys just have different types of sexy. Like a younger guy is more brash, bold, but also "young, dumb and full of cum." and I think people in general look better with less wrinkles and more firm, smooth, skin.

But older guys have more of a deep confidence that doesn't need to scream out, a simple surety with the world, "we've seen this before". I think confidence is a huge turn on for most people, and this is probably what attracts.

You say "I just find them so attractive and I don't know why.", but there has to be something that is drawing you. Maybe it's an idea of stability or comfort, or is there a certain look you like, like the salt-n-pepper beard?

[Gloree]

The man in the photo is so handsome. O my God.

[Gagname]

@Gloree
Do you not recognize him?…It’s actor George Clooney.

[Gloree]

@Gagname I barely watch movies. I'm a bookworm

[hhadeshatesme]

No. If you would have asked me a year ago I would have agreed. I use to like guys a lot older and maybe even put them on a pedestal a bit but being on gag made that die out fairly quickly, seeing the questions and mytakes asked/made by the average older guy made me realize just how dumb most of them remain. I thought men got better with age. I liked older guys cause I made the assumption that for most men their age automatically meant maturity, wisdom, intelligence, stability, less mind games, and experienced in the sack. Only a small % of men actually have all the boxes checked, most older guys are just as dense as the ones my own age just less attractive.

[Losalt]

Age just means more experience, what people do with that is still up to them.
The things you mentioned is easier to get with experience and age, but not automatic.

[Haha456]

Its a myth that old guys are better in bed. By mid 40s, most guys ballsacks dont really work at times. They lack the stamina to keep up in bed. The only possible reason why girls like old guys is because they tend to be less horny and more romantic than young guys

[ElementoP]

Guys on this stupid app are a lot dumber and less mature than the average guy. Take me, for example

[bennies_819]

I kinda a agree some of them are more mature than the young guys I dated in my past. people my age don't even know what a TRUE relationship is or even at all. i was dating a 23 year old guy (we wasn't exclusive just getting to know each other) he was very immature, narcissistic, poor communication skills I have ever heard and more. i hate guys that try to peer pressure women to do things they don't wanna do it's not cute nor attractive... I heard most guys I have talked to sound like they are children and can't understand the word "no". I have faith that my guy is coming just waiting on God to send me him.

[Screenwriter]

You maybe admire your dad? You're 19. An older guy is 35!

And, if you compare someone 35 to the crop of 21 year olds who you might be hanging around with, someone THAT age IS attractive: nice job, nice car, a brain in their upper head, manners, listens to YOU instead of rattling on about themselves, relaxed, confident. Those qualities are lacking in very young men who don't know much and are trying to impress you that they DO and fail miserably.

Experience, in this case, is a feather in the cap.

[ohsheeT]

Well since I'm an older guy I can only speak for myself but yeah I like me LOL I think older guys are just more together I know I'm 100 times better than I was when I was younger and when I was 15 and 1/2 16 years old I was seeing this 47-year-old lady and now that I'm my age now women my age sometimes are very boring because they just don't want to do anything I'd like to be happy energetic and go I still feel like I'm 25 so and nowadays if I didn't know how to treat a woman back then I definitely do now I'm pretty sure I did but and a lot of times younger women are just as smart and wise as older women it's amazing how women have changed girls have changed I love it I even like this question

[BlueScorpio]

No, most of are not that sexy. I see older men at my job everyday and they often remind me of someone's dad or grandpa. The only exception would be if he takes care of himself and is aging gracefully. But for the ones part I've never been into older men, always my age or maybe 1 to 2 years older.

[TransAm85]

I was 25 and met my now husband who was 33 at the time. Back then I thought the age difference was a little weird, but the sex was good, so we kept talking. We've been married 9 years at the end of this month. He's 45 now and I'll be 37! Older guys know what they want in life, the young guys just want sex and party.

[ElementoP]

It's true. I like sex and party

[mobiusforniner]

Yes, older men are mature = confident, more genuine and not trying to seduce you to the bedroom, patient, more established and more life experience. More sex experience too. Better lovers. So for a woman, i can see why an older guy has way more going for him.

[BrownSugar00]

Yes, but like middle aged men! I find middle aged men to be more mature, experienced, knowledgeable, wise and sexier! George Clooney, is an example, when he was a little bit younger. Another is Brad Pitt, Robert Downey Jr., Robert De Niro, Raul Julia... few of them are now old, or dead (RIP Raul Julia), but they are examples of what I find to be, attractive 😉 🔥

[Sour-rose]

No. I met an older guy trying to get in my pants and as he argued with his wife (they were helping me with my car) he was not someone I wanna get in a relationship with. He was loud, threatining to the homeless trying to help, and was a bit tipsy. And just walked away in the middle of a conversation with his wife. She was more cool headed than he was soo... o hell no.

[Guy13]

There’s no way you are real… I have mentors. They are 40-68. They like 🍸 🍸🍸🍸🍸. I do too but boy Serves. I have gotten grey highlights in my hair in last 3 months….

Don't get attached. 40 guys are brutal. 50 guys you may get a lucky 🍀 good one. 60s-70s…keep the home;lock unlock for the kids-you can’t live there but Cleaning and Family Maintenance Fees should be covered at 1400.00 month. See you when I’m around…. from ✈️ Work 🏝

[Pkira525]

Girl, that is completely normal and usually, it's the older men that are more stable and can provide so it makes sense. I was attracted to older men for the longest time and then my boyfriend came into the picture and made me question all my preferences lol i wouldn't trade it for the world tho

[anon1903]

I've daddy issues. My father isn't attractive, objectively speaking. My mother is. So I might date a hotter, older woman, but I'd never go for an older guy. I don't like them and I ain't cleaning after them if things work out and he retires before me.

[jamiexoxo]

older guys have confidence & experience, offering comfort & security, sexually they leave the younger guys in a daze, yeah!! your young guy hammers away like a puppy dog confused where he should look, while a mature gentleman brings the lady on a play of desires, I think it looks very sexy when i see a older man with a hot younger woman,

any girls in to old guys on here?

[Autember]

I absolutely think so! There is just something so attractive about a man who has his shit together and knows what he wants out of life. I find that attitude hot in guys my age too but typically comes from older guys haha

[Snsl153]

But that's just it; how many of these older guys really do have their "shit together"? You're making quite an assumption here. Have you noticed how the vast majority of homeless people are older guys?

[Autember]

Where did I say "all" older men? I find younger guys have more financial issues, but they have better support group like parents, friends etc.

[RosieMelts]

I used to be the same way, but really it just has to be the right combo for me. When I was a younger girl I had an “older guy” kink, but now that I’m a bit older, I kind of want guys closer to my age, not older 😂.

[dustybiker]

Not everyone ages well. Especially if a person doesn’t learn from their mistakes. A lot can remove the “sexy”. Age alone doesn’t smooth everything over.

[Haha456]

I like older but depends on how old. If he's wrinkly, losing hair, gaining weight, saggy balls then it would be a HELL NO! No senior citizens or old fat uncles

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t place a high premium on physical youth and beauty, as long as he is healthy and able to survive long enough for a lasting relationship, I just want somebody old enough, that I can trust him to be faithful to me.

[Snsl153]

Oh sure, with their false teeth, arthritic bones, wrinkles, constipation, gout, balding scalp and failing faculties. SO sexy (not). Excuse me while I throw up (blech!).

[questiongirl567]

Yeah lol I don’t get it even the ones in their late 50s you’ve got maybe 5 years max with them before they start getting wrinkley and not good looking as their body fails sadly and then your gonna be like 30 when they are 90 which doesn’t sound pretty

[Crafteroon]

It's clearly a matter of personal taste. And personal taste is partially defined by personal experiences.

Is it them being older, or them having life experiences, responsibilities, and seeming more adult than those closer to your age?

[Anonymous]

some of them are very sexy but to me it boils to the point of where i think that they're only for me to admire and have a crush on, not to flirt or date. also, they dont want me or even take me seriously so that would be a waste of time in my part

[Gagname]

I love your sophisticated/nuanced reply.

Just remember, “everyone’s different,” and some/(many?) older guys who are into younger women (depending on their preferences) WOULD want you & take you seriously.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes i know, but in my experience, they tend to get with me only for fun purposes

[Gagname]

Well what’s wrong with looking for and having fun? 🤷‍♂️ Lol
Seriously though, it’s like anything regarding getting along w others and finding friends & romantic interests…

There are some people who you connect with, and some that you don’t; and

There are some who are right for you, and some that are not; and

If you haven’t found the right people yet, then maybe you’re not looking (or making yourself available) in the right places.

[DannyUk2017]

If most girls/women would think the same like you... then the world would be a happier place for us "seniors"... 😉