When you are broke, with a family member to take care of and the urgency to actually earn money, doing the first or last move, don't mean anything, because YOUR FINANCIAL FUTURE IS UNSURE.
Some of us guys get judged harshly for coming off as being creepy when we are not. It could also be shyness too especially if its their first date.
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Yeah--the guys who make the first move have what's known as "testicular fortitude" otherwise known as "balls." The guys who want girls to make the first move don't. Choose accordingly.
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Well first of all you're talking online dating. That's a whole nother animal then regular dating. I would NEVER make the first move on online dating. The rules are completely different for online dating.
It relieves us of the risk of being rejected which happens a lot if we make the first move. There is no reason that women should not share the risk, but most simply refuse to do so.
If a girl leans in for a kiss! 99.9% of guys will accept it... for guys it's tough... we feel if we make the 1st move and it's not what she wanted... rejection turns into awkwardness!
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Some have low confidence and fear rejection, same with females
When you are broke, with a family member to take care of and the urgency to actually earn money, doing the first or last move, don't mean anything, because YOUR FINANCIAL FUTURE IS UNSURE.
Some of us guys get judged harshly for coming off as being creepy when we are not. It could also be shyness too especially if its their first date.
Yeah--the guys who make the first move have what's known as "testicular fortitude" otherwise known as "balls." The guys who want girls to make the first move don't. Choose accordingly.
Well first of all you're talking online dating. That's a whole nother animal then regular dating. I would NEVER make the first move on online dating. The rules are completely different for online dating.
It relieves us of the risk of being rejected which happens a lot if we make the first move. There is no reason that women should not share the risk, but most simply refuse to do so.
My guy friends have told me that women can be really harsh when rejecting a guy. Or it happens so much with them that they stop trying.
They're probably like me - will only make a move if she shows any interest in me, otherwise why bother?
I think the guys are too shy. I myself am constantly too shy, but did make the first move several times.
We like to be wanted too by the opposite sex. It doesn't feel good to be unwanted or being left out.
Too many women view interest as harrassment, so girls have to make the first move now.
Why not? Men also want to feel wanted sometimes.
Guys don't want to have their time wasted. If a woman is the first to text then she's genuinely more interested.
Because these days guys get called creepy, perverted, rapist, misogynist etc just by approaching a female so, the girls can do the approaching.
If a girl leans in for a kiss! 99.9% of guys will accept it... for guys it's tough... we feel if we make the 1st move and it's not what she wanted... rejection turns into awkwardness!
Why don't you just go out like a normal person and meet people?
We need to get a law that white women car only mate with black men. Breed out the white race.
Because we are terrified of getting rejected, Which is why most of us don't approach.
inexperienced maybe or possibly a virgin. extremely shy. that's all i can think of
Same reason why girls had always wanted guys to make the first move