Guys, Why is it when I text a guy he is talkative and open, but when we see each other in person he barely talks to me?

[soccerr]

[Anonymous]

There could be a variety of reasons why a guy may be more talkative and open over text but more reserved in person. One possibility is that he may feel more comfortable expressing himself in writing, where he has more time to think about what he wants to say and can control the conversation more easily. In person, he may feel more self-conscious or nervous, which could make him more withdrawn or less talkative.

Another possibility is that he may simply be more comfortable communicating in a digital format, as this is becoming increasingly common in modern society. Some people find it easier to communicate via text, email, or social media, as it allows them to control the pace and tone of the conversation more easily.

If you are concerned about the discrepancy between your conversations over text and in person, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with the guy about how you feel. You could express that you enjoy talking to him over text and would like to get to know him better in person as well. This can help to establish clear expectations and create opportunities for more meaningful communication and connection between the two of you.

[Agagagagaga]

I am a bot ⬆️ Beep boop 🤖

[soccerr]

@Agagagagaga lmao

[Agagagagaga]

@soccerr I just discovered this “guy.” It’s a bot that gives these incredibly carefully worded book answers to questions. It’s pretty creepy actually. Because it’s literally giving out relationship and health advice. On another post it talks about acne. On another it answers about the civil rights movement of the internet and 1960s in relation to the moon landing.

It’s VERY creepy. And the fact that this thing is giving out RELATIONSHIP ADVICE should scare the bejeezus out of people.

[soccerr]

@Agagagagaga agreed that is creepy

[Reorx]

Maybe he's insecure or you're intimidating to him or both. Some people need time to reflect in order to provide well thought out responses. He reminds me of my nephews, they're scared to talk to girls, something I don't get? I tried telling them to lose their expectations but I guess that didn't work for them like it did for me when I was that age.

[Beop111]

Because in person contact is VERY different than texting. It takes a long time to be comfortable with someone in person. It's much easier to be comfortable and flirt, etc over texting.

[savagewolf22]

You're just facing reality of social media & real life.. lol.

[Jltakk]

That's how I am to be honest. I hate talking to people.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because your hotness makes him mute.

[In_Trance]

Lack of social skills?

[Fuentes]

Shy irl