Do women say the opposite of what they actually mean? (Page 2)
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lol. No. my girl is pretty direct. if she says no, she usually means no. I can't even remember a time when she meant the opposite. I think it depends per girl. on the flip side, I often say things when I mean the opposite... and she is CLUELESS EVERYTIME!!!
it depends. if I would tell a guy that I like to call me... then hello, CALL ME!! but here is an example of a test. my boyfriend (now ex) wanted to take his truck through the mud. I told him it would get stuck. do not do it. he kept begging and begging and so I said "fine you can do whatever you want." he took it through the mud. that bitch got stuck too.
Personally, I say exactly what I mean because I want people to clearly understand me and what I mean. I like being straight forward with people. Some women may like to play games now and then, but I won't. It just depends on the woman because we're all different in different ways.
I have learned that women will do a little of both. Sometimes they are shy and will say the opposite because they may have their own opinions and want to hear the guys. Sometimes they tell the honest truth to see if us, dumb men will realize and make sure our answer is correct. If we pick the wrong answer, then women have the right to take away what us men love most, even if its just for a few days. That's torture. In conclusion, whatever a woman says, no matter what, just give her the answer that she would probably want you to say as not to make her mad and take away your fun button.
The test is only there if your presence needs testing. Know that for now the tests will be there but as you begin to become more evolved and. overcome some of your fears your prescense will naturally portray that. At that point it doesn't matter what you say because your presence is enough to create the sexual arch of polarity between masculine and feminine
this is mostly found in married women. Because they have nothing to lose & also if the hubby is a nut. Shy girls some times say no, but they mean it because they are afraid/shy. Under such case one should make repreated request and usually girls oblige to the request(say for kiss or intercourse).
if a guy asked for my number and I gave it to them, id ask them to call me, which means, call me, I'm not going to call you, if your interested, call me. I do say to opposite to what I mean to see if the guy cares enough for you to do the opposite. so yeah we're a mystery but you'll get over it :P
not at all though our reasons or explanations do seem hasty we try the best way we can to express or true feelings.i know I do I try to put my emotions in words but women do sometimes expect the guy to kinda read there mind and feel what there thinking.
Girls are weird about communication. if she never calls you back, than I would move on. I remember, in my 20's girl were very insecure and no clue what they want. I found out later woman will not text or call a guy back if they have lost all interest or no instant connection was made.(20's to late 20's) . Woman in there 30's want to settle down and find a man, so they are more open to calling back , but when they have a min. You have to keep things interesting, and She has to feel like she needs to keep contacting you. Mystery and not saying too much about yourself MAKES WOMAN GO WILD. I know if I give too much away , it really leaves to boredom in conversation. So I would wait for her to call you back if she does not find another girl.
No woman state the truth of the exact moment. Where men claim rationally they decide what is true and what is not and stick to it woman FEEL what is the truth of the moment. If she says she never wants to see you again in all truth that is what she was felling at the moment.
This is the only true answer on here, sorry you got one down
I agree.
I think the problem is that SOME girls out there are playing this mind game saying no when they mean yes and MANY guys start to think that ALL girls say the opposite. This actually pisses me off sometimes because I speak my mind but I have had guys trying to tell me, "oh no, you didn't mean that. I know you mean blah blah blah." And I would be like, "No! I mean what I said. Why would I say that if I don't mean that?" That's driving me nuts.
No, I don't think women say the opposite of what they mean. I just think sometimes we do and say things that can be difficult for guys to read. I think it really depends on her strategy, intentions, or she may be confused about her emotions, so really you never know. So try not to stress, she might be easier to read than you think. Yes, call her you never know what will happen.
It's called fitness testing.
Women test you, consciously and subconsciously, aka "shit tests." Such as, how many of you men have had a date call at the last minute, and try to change the location or time? Or she was late?
We all have. And we all know that the best thing to do is refuse to change the time/location, and if a girl is more than 15 minutes late and hasn't called, leave.
Honestly as a girl, I mean what I say. If I didn't want some guy to call me why would I give him my number in the first place? If this girl told you to call her then do it! She will probably be glad that you did. Why would you be desperate?
Well we give our numbers out to a lot of people and most of the time yes we do say the oppisite of what we actually mean and in this case sounds like she likes you or she would never ever ever call you.
Girls do test guys over and over again for self clarification and there partners, the second call though was partly a slip up you can't seem too intreged or we loose intrest
If you test guys...thats completely and utterly f***ed up. Your playing games with them. No one wants to be manipulated or lied to.
I don't think gender has anything to do with it, because I also test my partner. =P
I see where you're getting at also.
I test my partner too, if she tries to pull some stupid test on me she is out the door.
i wouldn't say that she is testing you just didn't call back and stop doing all these stupid games of not wanting to seem desperate she was probably doing something and her phone was in her room then she called you when she saw your missed calls
I can't speak for all woman but, I dont. I come out and say what I mean and won't beat around the bush. If I don't like something I'll tell you.
Don't worry about hidden meanings... There usually isn't one :)
Well if I felt we were both that interested I would've called her on the spot so she'd have my number to begin with lol. Then we could chat it up in stereo and have a good laugh and I'd be like... sooo how bout lunch tomorrow and a movie? LOL
bahahaha... looking at the poll
girls guys
A 25 73
B 47 15
it's either because most of the girls are saying the opposite of what they mean or guys don't get girls. I'm going to go with girls say the opposite of what they mean.