Its not easy. I'm insecure about my body because I have stretch marks and a belly and I'm not scared to say that. First self love is the best love. If you are happy with your size or weight then don't change it for nobody. Look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful on the outside and inside everyday to build your confidence. Never allow someone to make you feel bad about yourself just because you are big bone or skinny. There is nothing wrong with a skinny girl or a girl with a little meat on her bones because we are all the same. And if you are single and you are looking for someone always remember if a guy really care about you then the size don't matter.