Can an overweight man still be considered attractive?

[Bvroon]

Ladies can a man who is overweight still be considered attractive, or should he just forget it?

[ArtistBboy]

Truthfully, I think "bigger men" have a better chance at being with a gorgeous female in the long run. The men that are fat, understand that they must offer personality over looks- which attractive women will find much more attractive than any amount of physical appearance.

Would you enjoy being with someone rude that was physically attractive, or someone that has an attractive personality but alright looks?

Either way, be proactive - get out there and join a gym and start power walking. When you are comfortable, move up the ladder to more difficult work outs. This isn't to "attract women" this is for your own health and confidence.

I hope the information helps, there is hope.

Best regards,

ArtistBBoy

[Bvroon]

You have made some excellent points, thank you for your point of view. :)

[0llie]

How overweight?

I think many women would find a bit overweighted guy still attractive, if he had a nice personality, was funny, made them laugh etc. Weight is just a part of physical appearance which is not everything. My brother used to be overweight but he got himself a few girlfriends during that time, with one he lasted about 2 years. Everybody has a different taste and like something else.

[Rainbows]

How overweight?

Regardless, I don't think anyone should ever just "forget it" just because they're overweight. Weight is one of the few things in physical appearance that we have complete control over. If you're fat, f***ing do something about it if you don't feel attractive.

[samantha__xx]

of course :) personality counts for alot! and anyway, most girls DONT like skinny boys. personally, I wouldn't want a guy whose clothes I couldn't get into?! men are supposed to be manly, and bigger than you, its nice to feel that, instead of fear that you might crush them! aha. I think confidence is sexy. and never ever just forget it! xx

[Bvroon]

Thank you for your perspective, it is good to know that this isn't such a big issue, yes pun intended :-)

[m1988]

Yes, I was with an overweight guy for 4 years and I was still attracted to him. His weight fluctuated a fair bit, he wanted to get healthier for himself and for me which I supported but I still loved him either way...

[bambi_93]

yes, most girls look at a guys personality rather than weight

[Reeses-pieces777]

it depends on the preference of the woman.