Usually when I tell a guy he's like a big brother to me, or if I say I don't wanna ruin the friendship, etc. it's because I really enjoy his personality so I don't want to completely lose him in my life, but I'm not very attracted to him so I can't take it to the next level of dating.
The girls who are flirting with you, sitting in your lap, then say they just think of you as a big brother... are just being a tease, or they're doing it because they know you'll give them that attention they like, but they aren't really interested in you. Don't put up with that crap. Just keep looking, you'll find a girl :)
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I don't man... Maybe you just need to scrutinize your style of flirting, personality, dressing style, or hygiene maybe? I don't know dude.. but its gotta be one of those things. Oh, and don't try to force a romance with every girl you meet. Always think friend first, then if you decide you really like her then move on to the next step. Otherwise you'll come off as desperate.
be mysterious, and don't be wussy towards them. when flirting and you are reaching the climax withdraw from them. it will keep them wanting more. and don't help them either, if they got problems its their to fix not you
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