He called me fat the other night. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

hey guys.. so I've been seeing this guys for about 6 months and maybe even over that. not dating but not seeing other people.. don't ask lol anyways so he called me fat the other night. ]

i know I'm not overweight or obese I'm just not toned. obviously all girls are self conscious of their weight and its the golden rule that you just don't tell a girl their fat. (he was hammered at the time) anyways I haven't talked to him since because I'm so upset and he apologized and said he didn't mean it but why did he even say it then.? I know I have gained a few pounds back but nothing drastic. isn't this a total d*** move? what should I do..

its been 4 days without a word from him he said sorry like twice and that was it so it seems like he doesn't even care that my feelings are hurt. I thought we were pretty serious but now I'm just not so sure

[Jiffy]

He is waiting for you to come around , saying sorry twice is more than most men wil do , ask to talk to him and tell him you want compliments like vitamins... everyday... YOu can remind him by saying something like "say something nice" but you have to do it in a sexy way so that he wil make you feel sexy again. You are only offended because there is some truth in his words and what you are scared of is doing something about it . My ex called me things I would not mention here because its a family station...

[Asker]

Yea I think your probbably right he knows I'm really mad so I guess he's jsut staying clear until I'm over it. I'm gunna talk to him. thankyou!

[allaboutgirls]

i've had simular experiences. we shouldn't tolerate insults from our men,i just confronted mine recently. guys usually say what they mean when they are drunk. don't get sad, start exercising more and hooking yourself up and watch him get nervous that you are going to leave him.lol. has the flame in your relationship begun to die down?